(I still support the moms for modesty code I signed over at Everyday Mommy. But this was too funny to keep to myself.)
Go here for more great pics.
Wednesday, September 06, 2006
Wordless Wednesday
(I still support the moms for modesty code I signed over at Everyday Mommy. But this was too funny to keep to myself.)
Go here for more great pics.
Tuesday, September 05, 2006
When You Care Enough To Send the Very Best, But Don't Have the Time or Money
WFMW
I used to send birthday cards to everyone. Cousins, uncles, aunts, friends, etc. That was before I had four kids. I started tappering off the card sending to the third cousins a couple of years ago. It's not that I didn't want to, I just couldn't keep up and to tell you the truth trying was too difficult especially since no one ever sent my kids birthday cards.
But living out of state, I still wanted my family to know I cared about them. Then I rediscovered this or this. I would send the occassional email card here and there, but then I realized I could pre date the cards to send on my loved ones birthday. So in a couple of hours, I picked out cards for most of my family and if they keep the same email address, it will be sent atomatically on their birthday. I even get a reminded email telling me the card was sent.
Free computer cards. Send them and forget them! It works for me!
Visit Shannon for more great ideas.
I used to send birthday cards to everyone. Cousins, uncles, aunts, friends, etc. That was before I had four kids. I started tappering off the card sending to the third cousins a couple of years ago. It's not that I didn't want to, I just couldn't keep up and to tell you the truth trying was too difficult especially since no one ever sent my kids birthday cards.
But living out of state, I still wanted my family to know I cared about them. Then I rediscovered this or this. I would send the occassional email card here and there, but then I realized I could pre date the cards to send on my loved ones birthday. So in a couple of hours, I picked out cards for most of my family and if they keep the same email address, it will be sent atomatically on their birthday. I even get a reminded email telling me the card was sent.
Free computer cards. Send them and forget them! It works for me!
Visit Shannon for more great ideas.
Writing Tips From The Apostle Paul
I'm too tired to from homeschooling today to put together a coherent sentence, but Dena Dyer has an excellent post for writers on Writing Tips From the Apostle Paul. You won't want to miss this!
First Official Day of School
Today my two older boys go to the homeschool tutorial center for their first day of classes. They'll be taking state history, Shurley grammar 6, study hall and American Sign Language. They will be in the same classes even though one is in 4th and the other in 6th grade. I know they'll do great. My biggest concern is that they'll get sick of each other being in the same classes together, but I'm stressing that they need to stick together and take care of each other.
Grace will be at preschool and Timmy and I will dive into curriculum. Saxon phonics 1 and Math 1. He's a very smart boy, but reluctant to sit and do work. I'm praying this year will be easier, and I won't have to chase him around the house or bribe him too much:)
My school room is fairly organized except for my desk. But I can live with it a couple more days. So here's to the first full day of school!
Say a prayer!
UPDATED!
Thanks to everyone for your encouagement. We had a GREAT first official day. I guess it helped that I only had one kid at home. :)
But Timmy and I were able to breeze through 15 chapters of Phonics and math. It was all review so I didn't feel putting him through tedious lessons of things he already knew were necessary, no matter how much the curriculum tells you to follow it exactly!
Anyway, today was our BIG sit down lesson day. The rest of the week will be filled with more hands on phonics and math.
Chris and Joey really enjoyed their classes, though they said they didn't understand their grammar homework. I'll have to take a look at it tomorrow.
We've all been on a pretty good schedule during the day and my computer time is definitely down, but I still can't manage to wake up early enough to get in exercise or a decent quiet time. But I'm not worried. It will come. Hey, today after I dropped Chris off at musical theatre class I went to the gym and did the elliptical for 23 minutes, and I felt it working! That's a really good thing!
Grace will be at preschool and Timmy and I will dive into curriculum. Saxon phonics 1 and Math 1. He's a very smart boy, but reluctant to sit and do work. I'm praying this year will be easier, and I won't have to chase him around the house or bribe him too much:)
My school room is fairly organized except for my desk. But I can live with it a couple more days. So here's to the first full day of school!
Say a prayer!
UPDATED!
Thanks to everyone for your encouagement. We had a GREAT first official day. I guess it helped that I only had one kid at home. :)
But Timmy and I were able to breeze through 15 chapters of Phonics and math. It was all review so I didn't feel putting him through tedious lessons of things he already knew were necessary, no matter how much the curriculum tells you to follow it exactly!
Anyway, today was our BIG sit down lesson day. The rest of the week will be filled with more hands on phonics and math.
Chris and Joey really enjoyed their classes, though they said they didn't understand their grammar homework. I'll have to take a look at it tomorrow.
We've all been on a pretty good schedule during the day and my computer time is definitely down, but I still can't manage to wake up early enough to get in exercise or a decent quiet time. But I'm not worried. It will come. Hey, today after I dropped Chris off at musical theatre class I went to the gym and did the elliptical for 23 minutes, and I felt it working! That's a really good thing!
Monday, September 04, 2006
Lynette Sowell
Portrait of a Writing Mom
Lynette Sowell is a Massachusetts Yankee who makes her home in the heart of Texas. Her cozy mystery movel A Suspicion of Strawberries releases in March 2007 from Heartsong Presents: Mystery. She has sold three novellas which release in 2006. Away from Deadline-Land and Writing World, Lynette works as a medical transcriptionist for a large HMO. She loves to read, travel, spend time with her family, and also tries not to kill her houseplants, although her tropical hibiscus have contemplated pressing charges after last winter. You can visit her web site at http://www.lynettesowell.com/.
Welcome writer or should I say published author mom, Lynette Sowell to the Portrait of a Writer...Interrupted
Tell us a little about your family and your call to write.
I've been married for 11 years to an awesome man, have two teenagers (I married a readymade family), and five cats. I've always loved to write. The writing bug bit in fifth grade, and I either got busy or managed to ignore it until 1997, when I started my first book.
Tell me a about your recent contracts and up coming releases.
In 2006, I have three novellas releasing in the Barbour anthologies Windswept Weddings (June), Bayou Brides (September), and Brothers of the Outlaw Trail (December). My first cozy mystery novel A Suspicion of Strawberries releases through Heartsong Presents Mystery in March 2007, with two more books in a series (hopefully) after that.
What do you do to encourage yourself during those stormy days every writing mom has?
I remind myself that "this too shall pass." The storm will cease eventually and I'll go on from there. It's hard sometimes because storms seem neverending.
Do you think it’s possible to give yourself fully to raising children, writing and keeping in shape?
Yes, as long as I remind myself that giving fully doesn't mean I'm perfect.
How do you balance being a mom, wife, and writer?
I try to keep my heart sensitive to what's going on with our family relationships. I've been blessed with a husband who'll gently speak up if I'm at the keyboard too much. He realizes how much I love writing and the creative process, but he also knows it's not the most important thing to me.
The more I've had deadlines after receiving contracts, the more that my time at the computer isn't an option but a must. I also keep my "mom radar" on. I can tell if the kids need me more. As they've gotten older, I realize they still need me, although not as much—but the need is still there. On the other hand, when I realize I'm not getting much writing done, I tug myself back to the chair to work (not e-mail, etc.).
How do you position yourself to HEAR God’s voice when all the noises of life are swirling around you?
I have to admit that sometimes I get busy and don't pay attention or remember to listen to God's voice. So I make myself stop, and take a spiritual time-out. Usually this is when I'm frazzled and wanting to cry and feeling generally yucky and stressed. I'll slap myself on the forehead, realize what's happening, and go to my room and have some quiet time. I pray, open the Bible, and remind myself of what's really permanent.
Do you ever feel like you’re neglecting your children when you write?
Yes, I do, even now that they're older than when I first started writing. I think that sometimes we moms heap more guilt on ourselves than we deserve. I believe we must nurture our children and meet their needs, but we do them a disservice if we allow them to think that our worlds completely revolve around them.
Our job is to teach them how to be independent and productive so that one day they can function in the world of adults, and that learning to wait is not a bad thing. (Okay, off my soapbox now. My husband runs a day care, and more and more we see children who are "at demand" children, who do not understand that their place in the home, while important, is not the sole reason for the family's existence.)
If you do feel your priorities slipping, what do you do to get back on track?
I take a time out, and stop beating myself up. If God's mercies are new every morning, I try to redirect myself and rearrange activities. If I have to tell the family, "sorry, I can't watch the DVD tonight, I have to write," I do. (We love watching movies together.)
Has there ever been a time God told you to set aside your writing to focus on other areas of your life? If so, how did you handle that?
Yes, the summer of 2004. It was hard at first. I can't say that God "told" me to stop writing, but I spent a good part of June and July trying to refinish our kitchen cabinet doors. One night my husband and I spent the evening using furniture stripper and talking. I realized that even if I wasn't working on The Great American Novel, my life was more than just okay. I realized I was blessed and that my worth consisted of more than my writing.
Did you ever feel like you’ve “missed” God in regards to writing, that maybe you should be doing something else?
I sure did. There was a very dry period when I felt like I was spinning my wheels, stuck on the same novel proposal for a long time. My prayer was, "God, if I'm wasting my time, please tell me. I can do other things for You if that's what You want. You've given me other abilities." (And this was months before I got the e-mail containing a contract.)
When do you find the time to write, and how do you handle interruptions in your writing life?
I write in the evenings, usually after supper for an hour or so. This is when I research, plot, try to get a couple thousand words written. Well, the word count might end up being in the hundreds, but writing something is better than nothing. I also try to sneak time in on Saturdays. On Sunday I might read, or do a little research. If I'm on deadline, I let my family know, "The next X number of nights I'm going to be working late."
Life is full of interruptions. I try to go with the flow. And smile. The kids are pretty good about not interrupting, especially if I'm on deadline.
How do you get back into the flow of writing after you’ve been interrupted?
I start by reading the chapter I was working on, and then jump back in.
Tell me about how you got your first “writing break.”
In spring 2005, author Rachel Hauck asked me to join in a novella anthology proposal for a group of stories based on weather-related wedding day disasters. I wrote a synopsis, first chapter, and Rachel submitted the proposal in March 2005. The about six weeks later, we had a contract. My head spun with everything happening so fast. That's the thing with fiction. You learn to wait and wait, but sometimes things happen quickly. Two more contracts followed in fall 2005, and I received my first novel contract in February 2006.
What do you write and why this genre?
Right now I'm focusing on romance novellas and cozy mysteries. I love the novellas because they're perfect for an office lunch hour read. I also love seeing four stories from four different writers come together in a wonderful blend. Done well, anthologies are as satisfying a read as novels. As far as cozy mysteries go, I've always enjoyed the genre. I like the puzzle, the whodunit, and quirky fun characters. For a while, there didn't seem to be as much of a market in the CBA. Thankfully, Barbour has started a cozy mystery line that fills a need. I'm glad to have my work included in this initial batch of novels. Another love is science fiction/fantasy. One day I'd like to explore that genre as well.
What do you hope to accomplish through your novels?
First, I want to entertain readers. As a reader, I pick up novels for a good time, an adventure, and a gripping read—not to "learn" something. However, I want my readers to identify with my characters, and hopefully they're draw them closer to God even if, like me, they're reading for pleasure. Something like an entertaining movie that has a heart-stirring "gotcha" at the end.
What advice would you give to writing moms?
Don't beat yourself up if you can't do it all. You can't. Remember, kids grow fast. It doesn't seem like it when they're in their cranky moments, or the school's calling, or you have to drive someone to yet another practice, but it's true. On the other hand, remember that if you want to write, you must find the time, even if it's in short blocks. I also work a day job, so I have a boss to keep happy as well.
Is there anything else you’d like to share?
If you are writing with the goal of being published, terrific! Persist, work hard, learn and study the craft. Read good books, and dissect them to see what works. No one can gauge exactly when or how "it" happens—that story idea that gets a contract.
Also, learn how to work with other writers. Learn to play nice. The CBA world is not large, and a diva mentality won't work for long. For example, it's fun to work on a collaborative idea in an anthology, but it's important to remember it's not always about you and your story.
Thank you for being open and sharing your thoughts and wisdom with me. May God bless you as you write, raise your children and pursue His calling in your life.
Lynette Sowell is a Massachusetts Yankee who makes her home in the heart of Texas. Her cozy mystery movel A Suspicion of Strawberries releases in March 2007 from Heartsong Presents: Mystery. She has sold three novellas which release in 2006. Away from Deadline-Land and Writing World, Lynette works as a medical transcriptionist for a large HMO. She loves to read, travel, spend time with her family, and also tries not to kill her houseplants, although her tropical hibiscus have contemplated pressing charges after last winter. You can visit her web site at http://www.lynettesowell.com/.Welcome writer or should I say published author mom, Lynette Sowell to the Portrait of a Writer...Interrupted
Tell us a little about your family and your call to write.
I've been married for 11 years to an awesome man, have two teenagers (I married a readymade family), and five cats. I've always loved to write. The writing bug bit in fifth grade, and I either got busy or managed to ignore it until 1997, when I started my first book.
Tell me a about your recent contracts and up coming releases.
In 2006, I have three novellas releasing in the Barbour anthologies Windswept Weddings (June), Bayou Brides (September), and Brothers of the Outlaw Trail (December). My first cozy mystery novel A Suspicion of Strawberries releases through Heartsong Presents Mystery in March 2007, with two more books in a series (hopefully) after that.
What do you do to encourage yourself during those stormy days every writing mom has?
I remind myself that "this too shall pass." The storm will cease eventually and I'll go on from there. It's hard sometimes because storms seem neverending.
Do you think it’s possible to give yourself fully to raising children, writing and keeping in shape?
Yes, as long as I remind myself that giving fully doesn't mean I'm perfect.
How do you balance being a mom, wife, and writer?
I try to keep my heart sensitive to what's going on with our family relationships. I've been blessed with a husband who'll gently speak up if I'm at the keyboard too much. He realizes how much I love writing and the creative process, but he also knows it's not the most important thing to me.
The more I've had deadlines after receiving contracts, the more that my time at the computer isn't an option but a must. I also keep my "mom radar" on. I can tell if the kids need me more. As they've gotten older, I realize they still need me, although not as much—but the need is still there. On the other hand, when I realize I'm not getting much writing done, I tug myself back to the chair to work (not e-mail, etc.).
How do you position yourself to HEAR God’s voice when all the noises of life are swirling around you?
I have to admit that sometimes I get busy and don't pay attention or remember to listen to God's voice. So I make myself stop, and take a spiritual time-out. Usually this is when I'm frazzled and wanting to cry and feeling generally yucky and stressed. I'll slap myself on the forehead, realize what's happening, and go to my room and have some quiet time. I pray, open the Bible, and remind myself of what's really permanent.
Do you ever feel like you’re neglecting your children when you write?
Yes, I do, even now that they're older than when I first started writing. I think that sometimes we moms heap more guilt on ourselves than we deserve. I believe we must nurture our children and meet their needs, but we do them a disservice if we allow them to think that our worlds completely revolve around them.
Our job is to teach them how to be independent and productive so that one day they can function in the world of adults, and that learning to wait is not a bad thing. (Okay, off my soapbox now. My husband runs a day care, and more and more we see children who are "at demand" children, who do not understand that their place in the home, while important, is not the sole reason for the family's existence.)
If you do feel your priorities slipping, what do you do to get back on track?
I take a time out, and stop beating myself up. If God's mercies are new every morning, I try to redirect myself and rearrange activities. If I have to tell the family, "sorry, I can't watch the DVD tonight, I have to write," I do. (We love watching movies together.)
Has there ever been a time God told you to set aside your writing to focus on other areas of your life? If so, how did you handle that?
Yes, the summer of 2004. It was hard at first. I can't say that God "told" me to stop writing, but I spent a good part of June and July trying to refinish our kitchen cabinet doors. One night my husband and I spent the evening using furniture stripper and talking. I realized that even if I wasn't working on The Great American Novel, my life was more than just okay. I realized I was blessed and that my worth consisted of more than my writing.
Did you ever feel like you’ve “missed” God in regards to writing, that maybe you should be doing something else?
I sure did. There was a very dry period when I felt like I was spinning my wheels, stuck on the same novel proposal for a long time. My prayer was, "God, if I'm wasting my time, please tell me. I can do other things for You if that's what You want. You've given me other abilities." (And this was months before I got the e-mail containing a contract.)
When do you find the time to write, and how do you handle interruptions in your writing life?
I write in the evenings, usually after supper for an hour or so. This is when I research, plot, try to get a couple thousand words written. Well, the word count might end up being in the hundreds, but writing something is better than nothing. I also try to sneak time in on Saturdays. On Sunday I might read, or do a little research. If I'm on deadline, I let my family know, "The next X number of nights I'm going to be working late."
Life is full of interruptions. I try to go with the flow. And smile. The kids are pretty good about not interrupting, especially if I'm on deadline.
How do you get back into the flow of writing after you’ve been interrupted?
I start by reading the chapter I was working on, and then jump back in.
Tell me about how you got your first “writing break.”
In spring 2005, author Rachel Hauck asked me to join in a novella anthology proposal for a group of stories based on weather-related wedding day disasters. I wrote a synopsis, first chapter, and Rachel submitted the proposal in March 2005. The about six weeks later, we had a contract. My head spun with everything happening so fast. That's the thing with fiction. You learn to wait and wait, but sometimes things happen quickly. Two more contracts followed in fall 2005, and I received my first novel contract in February 2006.
What do you write and why this genre?
Right now I'm focusing on romance novellas and cozy mysteries. I love the novellas because they're perfect for an office lunch hour read. I also love seeing four stories from four different writers come together in a wonderful blend. Done well, anthologies are as satisfying a read as novels. As far as cozy mysteries go, I've always enjoyed the genre. I like the puzzle, the whodunit, and quirky fun characters. For a while, there didn't seem to be as much of a market in the CBA. Thankfully, Barbour has started a cozy mystery line that fills a need. I'm glad to have my work included in this initial batch of novels. Another love is science fiction/fantasy. One day I'd like to explore that genre as well.
What do you hope to accomplish through your novels?
First, I want to entertain readers. As a reader, I pick up novels for a good time, an adventure, and a gripping read—not to "learn" something. However, I want my readers to identify with my characters, and hopefully they're draw them closer to God even if, like me, they're reading for pleasure. Something like an entertaining movie that has a heart-stirring "gotcha" at the end.
What advice would you give to writing moms?
Don't beat yourself up if you can't do it all. You can't. Remember, kids grow fast. It doesn't seem like it when they're in their cranky moments, or the school's calling, or you have to drive someone to yet another practice, but it's true. On the other hand, remember that if you want to write, you must find the time, even if it's in short blocks. I also work a day job, so I have a boss to keep happy as well.
Is there anything else you’d like to share?
If you are writing with the goal of being published, terrific! Persist, work hard, learn and study the craft. Read good books, and dissect them to see what works. No one can gauge exactly when or how "it" happens—that story idea that gets a contract.
Also, learn how to work with other writers. Learn to play nice. The CBA world is not large, and a diva mentality won't work for long. For example, it's fun to work on a collaborative idea in an anthology, but it's important to remember it's not always about you and your story.
Thank you for being open and sharing your thoughts and wisdom with me. May God bless you as you write, raise your children and pursue His calling in your life.
Sunday, September 03, 2006
Just Reminding Myself God is in Control
Portrait of Faith, Homeschooling, Writing, Family
As homeschooling swings into full gear and ACFW conference is just a few weeks away I need to remind myself that God is in control of this season in my life...
Lou Holtz - "Life is ten percent what happens to you and ninety percent how you respond to it."
Philippians 4:6
"Don't fret or worry. Instead of worrying, pray. Let petitions and praises shape your worries into prayers, letting God know your concerns.
Be anxious for nothing..." The Message
As homeschooling swings into full gear and ACFW conference is just a few weeks away I need to remind myself that God is in control of this season in my life...
Lou Holtz - "Life is ten percent what happens to you and ninety percent how you respond to it."
Philippians 4:6
"Don't fret or worry. Instead of worrying, pray. Let petitions and praises shape your worries into prayers, letting God know your concerns.
Be anxious for nothing..." The Message
Saturday, September 02, 2006
A Solute to Teachers Everywhere
Teachers NEED Prayer
Portrait of Fun, Faith
I just got this in an email and thought it was worth a post.
After being interviewed by the school administration, the eager teaching prospect said:
"Let me see if I've got this right. You want me to go into that room with all those kids, and fill their every waking moment with a love for learning, and I'm supposed to instill a sense of pride in their ethnicity, modify their disruptive behavior, observe them for signs of abuse and even censor their T-shirt messages and dress habits."
"You want me to wage a war on drugs and sexually transmitted diseases, check their backpacks for weapons of mass destruction, and raise their self esteem. You want me to teach them patriotism, good citizenship, sportsmanship, fair play, how to register to vote, how to balance a checkbook, and how to apply for a job."
"I am to check their heads for lice, maintain a safe environment, recognize signs of anti-social behavior, make sure all students pass the state exams, even those who don't come to school regularly or complete any of their assignments. Plus, I am to make sure that all of the students with handicaps get an equal education regardless of the extent of their mental or physical handicap."
"I am to communicate regularly with the parents by letter, telephone, newsletter and report card. All of this I am to do with just a piece of chalk, a computer, a few books, a bulletin board, a big smile AND on a starting salary that qualifies my family for food stamps!"
"You want me to do all of this and then you tell me...I CAN'T PRAY?"
I just got this in an email and thought it was worth a post.
After being interviewed by the school administration, the eager teaching prospect said:
"Let me see if I've got this right. You want me to go into that room with all those kids, and fill their every waking moment with a love for learning, and I'm supposed to instill a sense of pride in their ethnicity, modify their disruptive behavior, observe them for signs of abuse and even censor their T-shirt messages and dress habits."
"You want me to wage a war on drugs and sexually transmitted diseases, check their backpacks for weapons of mass destruction, and raise their self esteem. You want me to teach them patriotism, good citizenship, sportsmanship, fair play, how to register to vote, how to balance a checkbook, and how to apply for a job."
"I am to check their heads for lice, maintain a safe environment, recognize signs of anti-social behavior, make sure all students pass the state exams, even those who don't come to school regularly or complete any of their assignments. Plus, I am to make sure that all of the students with handicaps get an equal education regardless of the extent of their mental or physical handicap."
"I am to communicate regularly with the parents by letter, telephone, newsletter and report card. All of this I am to do with just a piece of chalk, a computer, a few books, a bulletin board, a big smile AND on a starting salary that qualifies my family for food stamps!"
"You want me to do all of this and then you tell me...I CAN'T PRAY?"
Friday, September 01, 2006
Been There. Seen That!
Portrait of Fun
I've seen this little map plastered on just about everyone's blog so I'd thought I'd join in. Now I haven't stayed in all of these states, but I have driven through all of the ones in red. Does't that count? In my book it does.
Looks like I know where I need to go for my next couple of vacations. Up north! If you want your own map, check this out.
create your own visited states map
or check out these Google Hacks.
I've seen this little map plastered on just about everyone's blog so I'd thought I'd join in. Now I haven't stayed in all of these states, but I have driven through all of the ones in red. Does't that count? In my book it does.
Looks like I know where I need to go for my next couple of vacations. Up north! If you want your own map, check this out.
create your own visited states map
or check out these Google Hacks.
Thursday, August 31, 2006
Snakes, Spiders and Gracie, Oh MY!
Portrait of Fun, Family
The other day after I returned home from a homeschool meeting the kids assaulted me with stories of their evening adventure outside. I couldn't quite understand everyone. Timmy's voice rose above the others (including two friends).
"Mom, guess who's the first person in this family to ever catch a snake?"
I looked at him a little perplexed. "Who?"
"Grace!" He giggled.
So, the story goes...Grace found a "worm" in a neighbors backyard and came out with it, holding it by the tail. She was swinging it around, hitting one friend with it as the blood from the "worm's" mouth flung every where. Then my husband realizes it's a dead gardener snake. I didn't even know they had those here in the suburbs.
Guess what my initial reaction was...I wish I had a camera so I could post it on my blog.
Tonight the boys come running to me asking if they could watch a neighbor shoot a black widow spider with a bee bee gun. Of course I said, "no" being the paranoid city girl that I am. Remember the tick incident. Well, I preceded to look up Black Widow Spider on line and Chris assured me that's what was in our neighbor's back yard.
Snakes, Black widow spiders...I think it may be time to move. :)
The other day after I returned home from a homeschool meeting the kids assaulted me with stories of their evening adventure outside. I couldn't quite understand everyone. Timmy's voice rose above the others (including two friends).
"Mom, guess who's the first person in this family to ever catch a snake?"
I looked at him a little perplexed. "Who?"
"Grace!" He giggled.
So, the story goes...Grace found a "worm" in a neighbors backyard and came out with it, holding it by the tail. She was swinging it around, hitting one friend with it as the blood from the "worm's" mouth flung every where. Then my husband realizes it's a dead gardener snake. I didn't even know they had those here in the suburbs.
Guess what my initial reaction was...I wish I had a camera so I could post it on my blog.
Tonight the boys come running to me asking if they could watch a neighbor shoot a black widow spider with a bee bee gun. Of course I said, "no" being the paranoid city girl that I am. Remember the tick incident. Well, I preceded to look up Black Widow Spider on line and Chris assured me that's what was in our neighbor's back yard.
Snakes, Black widow spiders...I think it may be time to move. :)
Writer...Interrupted Blogging Debut
Portrait of Writing, Writing moms
Some of you might not know about my other blog geared toward helping writer moms manage their time and call to write. Today begins the official blogging schedule and we have a great weekly line up of fellow bloggers, moms and authors. So check it out for some fun and encouragement! And don't forget to comment.
Some of you might not know about my other blog geared toward helping writer moms manage their time and call to write. Today begins the official blogging schedule and we have a great weekly line up of fellow bloggers, moms and authors. So check it out for some fun and encouragement! And don't forget to comment.
The Beauty of Learning
Portrait of Homeschooling
I wrote this for the Carnival of Beauty, but see that I'm a little late, but I posted anyway.:)
I've always been a fan of history. I can remember my very first historical fiction story I wrote in grade school. I guess I must have been intrigued by the surrender at Yorktown and how the continental army and French forces trapped Cornwallis in the bay.
With that little bit of information I crafted a story about young girl whose brother went off to war. In the course of the story she magically travels to different battle sites looking for her brother, and then over hears Cornwallis' plan. I titled the story, "How We Won the War."
I need to pull that story back out and read it to my children. We are finishing up our studies of the Revolutionary War, and I'm still intrigued with the people and stories, and how God had his hand in our country's leaders' lives.
As a man over 6 feet tall, George Washington should have been shot, and most likely killed in the French and Indian war, yet he was spared over and over again. The closest he got to being shot was a bullet grazing his coat.
I'm fascinated by Benedict Arnold who was considered just as great a man as Washington, yet with a self-serving character which started on his demise.
And women like Deborah Sampson who dressed as a man to fight in this brutal war for liberty have me in awe.
I think I'm learning more now as I homeschool my children then I ever did in school. We can learn so much from history if we only take the time to study it. The challenge for me as a homeschooling mom is to mix the facts with the fun. I think I've already found the first step in doing that, loving what I'm learning!
I wrote this for the Carnival of Beauty, but see that I'm a little late, but I posted anyway.:)
I've always been a fan of history. I can remember my very first historical fiction story I wrote in grade school. I guess I must have been intrigued by the surrender at Yorktown and how the continental army and French forces trapped Cornwallis in the bay.
With that little bit of information I crafted a story about young girl whose brother went off to war. In the course of the story she magically travels to different battle sites looking for her brother, and then over hears Cornwallis' plan. I titled the story, "How We Won the War."
I need to pull that story back out and read it to my children. We are finishing up our studies of the Revolutionary War, and I'm still intrigued with the people and stories, and how God had his hand in our country's leaders' lives.
As a man over 6 feet tall, George Washington should have been shot, and most likely killed in the French and Indian war, yet he was spared over and over again. The closest he got to being shot was a bullet grazing his coat.
I'm fascinated by Benedict Arnold who was considered just as great a man as Washington, yet with a self-serving character which started on his demise.
And women like Deborah Sampson who dressed as a man to fight in this brutal war for liberty have me in awe.
I think I'm learning more now as I homeschool my children then I ever did in school. We can learn so much from history if we only take the time to study it. The challenge for me as a homeschooling mom is to mix the facts with the fun. I think I've already found the first step in doing that, loving what I'm learning!
Wednesday, August 30, 2006
Wordless Wednesday:
A Game of Puppy and Gerbil?
portrait of fun
For further explanation see my comment section!
For further explanation see my comment section!
Tuesday, August 29, 2006
Ciao, Pizza Cutter
WFMW
For an Italian to throw a pizza cutter away it's a big deal. (Don't tell mama) but I found it's much easier to cut pizza with a kitchen scissor. We usually cut our slices in half so everyone can get their favorite types of pizza, but it's great for cutting pizza into pieces for the little ones, and it's MUCH quicker than a pizza cutter.Scissors are also great for cutting up chicken, steak, and even salad. When my kids were younger I used to carry a pair around in my purse for easy cutting of food at restaurants, but make sure you take it out of your purse if you're traveling on an air plane. :)
For more great time saving ideas go here.
Pluto has been Voted Off the Solar System
Portrait of fun, homeschooling
Yes, it's true. Pluto is not a planet any more. and my boys are really upset. They feel sad for Pluto, being demoted like that just because it's not big and special like the other planets, and it doesn't have a tidy orbit.
Textbooks will have to be rewritten and even the School House Rock Inter Planet Janet song is out dated. But I've rewritten my own version of Pluto's little part in the song. It goes like this. [sniff]
"Pluto, little Pluto is NOT a planet any more...boo...hoo" [sniff, sniff]
So in honor of Pluto and to all the little guys in the universe and on earth, I say you're special and don't let anyone tell you different! Just because you're not as big as the other guys and you orbit differently doesn't make you less of planet in our eyes.
We will remember you, and our family has a solar system styrofoam project hanging in our school room to prove you were once considered part of the solar system and considered a full fledged planet!
Here are some more interesting site about Pluto:
http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2006/08/060824-pluto-planet.html
http://www.shanghaidaily.com/art/2006/08/25/290119/Scientists_dump_Pluto_from_list_of_planets.htm
Yes, it's true. Pluto is not a planet any more. and my boys are really upset. They feel sad for Pluto, being demoted like that just because it's not big and special like the other planets, and it doesn't have a tidy orbit. Textbooks will have to be rewritten and even the School House Rock Inter Planet Janet song is out dated. But I've rewritten my own version of Pluto's little part in the song. It goes like this. [sniff]
"Pluto, little Pluto is NOT a planet any more...boo...hoo" [sniff, sniff]
So in honor of Pluto and to all the little guys in the universe and on earth, I say you're special and don't let anyone tell you different! Just because you're not as big as the other guys and you orbit differently doesn't make you less of planet in our eyes.
We will remember you, and our family has a solar system styrofoam project hanging in our school room to prove you were once considered part of the solar system and considered a full fledged planet!
Here are some more interesting site about Pluto:
http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2006/08/060824-pluto-planet.html
http://www.shanghaidaily.com/art/2006/08/25/290119/Scientists_dump_Pluto_from_list_of_planets.htm
Monday, August 28, 2006
I'm Updating My Blogroll
I've made so many new blogging friends over the summer that I'd like to add you to my blogroll. So if you link to me, fit one of my categories in the sidebar and don't see your name on the list, let me know, and I'll try to fit it in some time before Christmas!:)
Homeschool Records Revolutionized
Portrait of Homeschool
As we gear up to start our third year homeschooling I've come to realize that I write the way I homeschool.
In the writing circles you're classified as either a Plotter who painstakingly plans out every scene of your novel, or a Seat Of The Pants (SOTP) writer who knows nothing more than the name of her character and the basic conflict.
Well, I'm sort of a combination. (Some one needs to come up with an acronym for that one.) I plan a little and then let my characters take over. I steer them one way through basic plot points and then see where they want to go.
It's the same with my homeschooling. I have a basic skeleton of the subjects and what I want to study for the year, but I don't always know how I'm going to get there. And it's fun and exciting, but also disorganized and confusing at times. So in an effort to get better organized in homeschooling I decided to start with better record keeping and planning.
In the past I bought those spiral notebook type daily planners that all the school teachers have. No design really fit my needs, but I used them anyway, scratching out subjects and scribbling over dates. This year I designed my own daily planner on the computer, one that would fit my needs, but then I found this.
It's a homeschool record keeping program that will work with any commando planner or flower child unschooler. In less than an hour I walked through the set up program, Iable abel to add my four students and get a feel for the program.
We used it today for the first time on our first unofficial day of school. My goal was to get on a good morning schedule and do Bible and a little math. I recordeskeletonelton plan in the teachers journal and this morning after Bible which just happened to contain a hidden math lesson, I recorded it in the kids daily school planner, marking each as completed!
I know there has to be some homeschoolers still using the archaic method of record keeping, afraid of the technology learning curve, but it wasn't that difficult and it will save me tons of time while keeping my records neat and orderly.
I think the only downside is that now I'll be on the computer more!
As we gear up to start our third year homeschooling I've come to realize that I write the way I homeschool.
In the writing circles you're classified as either a Plotter who painstakingly plans out every scene of your novel, or a Seat Of The Pants (SOTP) writer who knows nothing more than the name of her character and the basic conflict.
Well, I'm sort of a combination. (Some one needs to come up with an acronym for that one.) I plan a little and then let my characters take over. I steer them one way through basic plot points and then see where they want to go.
It's the same with my homeschooling. I have a basic skeleton of the subjects and what I want to study for the year, but I don't always know how I'm going to get there. And it's fun and exciting, but also disorganized and confusing at times. So in an effort to get better organized in homeschooling I decided to start with better record keeping and planning.
In the past I bought those spiral notebook type daily planners that all the school teachers have. No design really fit my needs, but I used them anyway, scratching out subjects and scribbling over dates. This year I designed my own daily planner on the computer, one that would fit my needs, but then I found this.
It's a homeschool record keeping program that will work with any commando planner or flower child unschooler. In less than an hour I walked through the set up program, Iable abel to add my four students and get a feel for the program.
We used it today for the first time on our first unofficial day of school. My goal was to get on a good morning schedule and do Bible and a little math. I recordeskeletonelton plan in the teachers journal and this morning after Bible which just happened to contain a hidden math lesson, I recorded it in the kids daily school planner, marking each as completed!
I know there has to be some homeschoolers still using the archaic method of record keeping, afraid of the technology learning curve, but it wasn't that difficult and it will save me tons of time while keeping my records neat and orderly.
I think the only downside is that now I'll be on the computer more!
Sunday, August 27, 2006
On Hubby and Blogging
Portrait of Family, writing
My hubby is NOT a reader. If it's not on tape, or required reading for a men's Bible study, chances are he's not going to read it. So when he came home on Friday and told me he spent an hour reading my blog I should have been ecstatic. And I'm truly appreciative of the fact that he would take time out of his busy work day to read my blog, but I guess I was expecting a "Wow! You've done some awesome writing. Great job!"
Instead I got “now I know where you’ve been spending all your time.” Now I know he thinks I'm a great writer and that my site looks awesome. He's even told me so, but at the time, that's not what I heard. He probably said some great things after that but my mind immediately blocked out his words and went into "deciphering hidden message mode" which to me said:
I’ve come to realize that that wasn’t him talking. That was MY GUILT ad libing for spending too much time this summer on the computer when I claimed to have given up writing? Over the past couple of months comments from my kids and husband have confirmed that I’m still on the computer a lot.
All this happened as I was heading out the door on my long awaited writing weekend. Doubts, insecurities and tears oozed from me. All in that one little moment I felt it happening all over again. Did I trade one idol in for another?
I wanted to believe that I had given up my idols but this new obsession seems to be growing out of control. And I know it, and I've already determined to set some boundaries. I guess I was just taking advantage of the scheduless summer. Now it's back to routines, and blogging is going to have to be scheduled in with the rest of my life.
Sure, he still doesn’t “get” my writing, but not many non writers do. But I know my defensiveness with my writing stems from my insecurities about my writing. Several people have commented over the months that maybe writing isn’t God’s plan and that maybe He has something better. Something I can’t possibly image. Maybe they’re right. Maybe they’re not.
Birds have to fly. Fish have to swim. They don’t question God’s will for their lives. And I have to write!! I am a writer. Whether or not God’s will for me is to be published will be determined. But I will keep pressing on until God changes my heart or reveals another plan.
But first and foremost I have to bring glory to God and if my writing gets in the way, then He’ll take it away. I know that from experience.
It has been brought to my attention that my original post was a bit "bashing." So in an attempt not to whine and complain about my hubby who is a wonderful, hardworking, fabulous provider and father, here's the new and slightly improved version. :)
My hubby is NOT a reader. If it's not on tape, or required reading for a men's Bible study, chances are he's not going to read it. So when he came home on Friday and told me he spent an hour reading my blog I should have been ecstatic. And I'm truly appreciative of the fact that he would take time out of his busy work day to read my blog, but I guess I was expecting a "Wow! You've done some awesome writing. Great job!"
Instead I got “now I know where you’ve been spending all your time.” Now I know he thinks I'm a great writer and that my site looks awesome. He's even told me so, but at the time, that's not what I heard. He probably said some great things after that but my mind immediately blocked out his words and went into "deciphering hidden message mode" which to me said:
"Gee, honey, now I understand why the laundry is never done, and dinner isn’t on time when I walk through the door. I’ve always wondered where you were when it’s time to put the kids to bed, now I know. Uh, didn't you give up writing?”
I’ve come to realize that that wasn’t him talking. That was MY GUILT ad libing for spending too much time this summer on the computer when I claimed to have given up writing? Over the past couple of months comments from my kids and husband have confirmed that I’m still on the computer a lot.
All this happened as I was heading out the door on my long awaited writing weekend. Doubts, insecurities and tears oozed from me. All in that one little moment I felt it happening all over again. Did I trade one idol in for another?
I wanted to believe that I had given up my idols but this new obsession seems to be growing out of control. And I know it, and I've already determined to set some boundaries. I guess I was just taking advantage of the scheduless summer. Now it's back to routines, and blogging is going to have to be scheduled in with the rest of my life.
So for the record, my hubby is a wonderful guy who encourages me to take these weekends away, and I am truly grateful he has no problem keeping the kids.
Sure, he still doesn’t “get” my writing, but not many non writers do. But I know my defensiveness with my writing stems from my insecurities about my writing. Several people have commented over the months that maybe writing isn’t God’s plan and that maybe He has something better. Something I can’t possibly image. Maybe they’re right. Maybe they’re not.
Birds have to fly. Fish have to swim. They don’t question God’s will for their lives. And I have to write!! I am a writer. Whether or not God’s will for me is to be published will be determined. But I will keep pressing on until God changes my heart or reveals another plan.
But first and foremost I have to bring glory to God and if my writing gets in the way, then He’ll take it away. I know that from experience.
Saturday, August 26, 2006
It Just Makes Me Wonder
Portrait of Faith, Writing
I woke up at 8:30 switched on the TV to see what I was missing at home not having cable. Not much obviously. I settled on a political news program about the one year anniversary of Katrina. After heating up my breakfast sandwich in the microwave, I turned on my computer anticipating a peaceful writing morning. Then I reached for the Gideon's Bible.
I read a couple of Psalms, yet my mind was distracted, nothing really sunk it. Then it hit me. I was reading a Bible in my hotel room placed by the Gideon's. I wasn't reading any other religious book. I thought of all the rooms in the hotel and all the hotels in my town and all the hotels in other towns. I thanked God for the Gideon's, grateful for their work in placing Bibles all over the world. I had purposefully left my Bible at home assuming there'd be one for me to read in the hotel. And this time there was.
But what about next time?
I pray I never see the day I won't be able to find a Gideon's Bible in a hotel room.
I woke up at 8:30 switched on the TV to see what I was missing at home not having cable. Not much obviously. I settled on a political news program about the one year anniversary of Katrina. After heating up my breakfast sandwich in the microwave, I turned on my computer anticipating a peaceful writing morning. Then I reached for the Gideon's Bible.
I read a couple of Psalms, yet my mind was distracted, nothing really sunk it. Then it hit me. I was reading a Bible in my hotel room placed by the Gideon's. I wasn't reading any other religious book. I thought of all the rooms in the hotel and all the hotels in my town and all the hotels in other towns. I thanked God for the Gideon's, grateful for their work in placing Bibles all over the world. I had purposefully left my Bible at home assuming there'd be one for me to read in the hotel. And this time there was.
But what about next time?
I pray I never see the day I won't be able to find a Gideon's Bible in a hotel room.
Thank you Lord for your Word and for those who have given to the Gideon's to make it possibly for people to have your Word. I pray their work continues, their support increases and that those who do not know you, will catch a little glimpse of you one night in their hotel room in a Gideon's Bible.
Friday, August 25, 2006
My Husband FINALLY Read My Blog
Portrait of Writing, Family
Big Mistake
Both hubby and I are not gifted in encouraging andedifyingg and instead of focusing on how wonderful my blog is and what a good writer I am ('cause I know he thinks that) he says, "Now I know where you've been spending all your time. "
That happened as I was heading out the door for my writing weekend. Talk about heaping a load of discouragement on me! I immediately went into deciphering the hidden message mode which said:
Well, whether or not that's what he actually said, it's what I heard and it mixed with my own mama guilt for spending too much time on the computer. (Hey, at least I don't watch soaps while eating bon bons or talk on the phone. Don't I get some points for that?)
But still, I've slowly been feeling this new obsession growing out of control, but I also knew there'd be an end to the endless hours on the internet. We're still in summer mode, gearing up for homeschool. So while his words might have been right on, it's the lack of support and encouragement I often feel for my writing that got to me.
Don't get me wrong, he's a wonderful guy who lets me go off on SEVERAL in town weekends a year to write or scrapbook or whatever! And he has NO PROBLEM taking care of the four kids. It's just he doesn't get it that my writing isn't just a hobby. It's a career in the making which would carry more weight if I was actually making money at it. Though I do remind him that I've made $1200 writing in the last two years (though I turn around and spend it on writer's conferences.) Doesn't that count for it being a REAL career?
Anyway, enough gripping. I'm just so excited to be here in the hotel suite (that my hubby did a business trade for so I could get away.) I've got my coffee brewed. I'm set up on the bed, though there's a perfectly good desk. My meals are stashed away in the frig and the room came with microwave popcorn and two complementary beverages which I got at the little food pantry down stairs. So I'm all set. (If only this high speed internet hook up was a little faster.)
Next thing to do it is log off, pray and then write!
Big Mistake
Both hubby and I are not gifted in encouraging andedifyingg and instead of focusing on how wonderful my blog is and what a good writer I am ('cause I know he thinks that) he says, "Now I know where you've been spending all your time. "
That happened as I was heading out the door for my writing weekend. Talk about heaping a load of discouragement on me! I immediately went into deciphering the hidden message mode which said:
"Gee, honey, now I understand why the laundry is never done, and dinner isn't on time when I walk through the door. I've always wondered where you were when it's time to put the kids to bed, now I know. Uh, didn't you give up writing?"
Well, whether or not that's what he actually said, it's what I heard and it mixed with my own mama guilt for spending too much time on the computer. (Hey, at least I don't watch soaps while eating bon bons or talk on the phone. Don't I get some points for that?)
But still, I've slowly been feeling this new obsession growing out of control, but I also knew there'd be an end to the endless hours on the internet. We're still in summer mode, gearing up for homeschool. So while his words might have been right on, it's the lack of support and encouragement I often feel for my writing that got to me.
Don't get me wrong, he's a wonderful guy who lets me go off on SEVERAL in town weekends a year to write or scrapbook or whatever! And he has NO PROBLEM taking care of the four kids. It's just he doesn't get it that my writing isn't just a hobby. It's a career in the making which would carry more weight if I was actually making money at it. Though I do remind him that I've made $1200 writing in the last two years (though I turn around and spend it on writer's conferences.) Doesn't that count for it being a REAL career?
Anyway, enough gripping. I'm just so excited to be here in the hotel suite (that my hubby did a business trade for so I could get away.) I've got my coffee brewed. I'm set up on the bed, though there's a perfectly good desk. My meals are stashed away in the frig and the room came with microwave popcorn and two complementary beverages which I got at the little food pantry down stairs. So I'm all set. (If only this high speed internet hook up was a little faster.)
Next thing to do it is log off, pray and then write!
A Tear Jerker
Portrait of Fun, Family, Writing
I can't get through this book without crying. I hadn't read it in a couple of years and tonight Gracie brought it to me to read before bed. I thought I could handle it. I thought I wasn't going to cry until...Well, maybe a quick review is in order.
Love You Forever by Robert Munsch is about a mother and son. Every night when the son was asleep the mother would rock the baby and sing "I'll love you forever, I'll like you for always, As long as I'm living my baby you'll be."
Even through the terrible twos, the rebellious teen years and even when the boy was out on his own, his mother would sneak into his room, and when he was asleep she'd rock him and sing the same song.
Then one day she called him to come to her because she was old and sick. (Okay, here's where I get choked up.) She tries to sing the song, but can't finish it so her son picks her up, rocks her and sings "I'll love you forever, I'll like you for always as long as I'm living my mommy you'll be." (Sheesh! Even as I write that I feel the emotion swelling in my chest.)
Then the boy/man goes home and rocks his baby daugher and sings the song!
A must read for every mom! Go out and buy it for your pregnant friends today!
I can't get through this book without crying. I hadn't read it in a couple of years and tonight Gracie brought it to me to read before bed. I thought I could handle it. I thought I wasn't going to cry until...Well, maybe a quick review is in order.Love You Forever by Robert Munsch is about a mother and son. Every night when the son was asleep the mother would rock the baby and sing "I'll love you forever, I'll like you for always, As long as I'm living my baby you'll be."
Even through the terrible twos, the rebellious teen years and even when the boy was out on his own, his mother would sneak into his room, and when he was asleep she'd rock him and sing the same song.
Then one day she called him to come to her because she was old and sick. (Okay, here's where I get choked up.) She tries to sing the song, but can't finish it so her son picks her up, rocks her and sings "I'll love you forever, I'll like you for always as long as I'm living my mommy you'll be." (Sheesh! Even as I write that I feel the emotion swelling in my chest.)
Then the boy/man goes home and rocks his baby daugher and sings the song!
A must read for every mom! Go out and buy it for your pregnant friends today!
Thursday, August 24, 2006
Chick Embryo Heartbeat
Portrait of Homeschooling, Fun
I couldn't wait for Wordless Wednesday, plus I've got some words to go with this. We went to a museum a couple of weeks ago and were mesmerized by this chick embryo with a heartbeat. I don't know what the PETA people would say and I don't know what happens to this little guy (it's only a couple of days old) but it's so amazing to see the little heartbeat and makes we wonder how people can debate that life starts at birth!
I couldn't wait for Wordless Wednesday, plus I've got some words to go with this. We went to a museum a couple of weeks ago and were mesmerized by this chick embryo with a heartbeat. I don't know what the PETA people would say and I don't know what happens to this little guy (it's only a couple of days old) but it's so amazing to see the little heartbeat and makes we wonder how people can debate that life starts at birth!
Kids Say the Funniest Things...
playing Rescue Heroes "This is Wendy Waters. Do you Coffee? Do you Coffee?"
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After looking at a picture of me pregnant with her. "Mom, I peed in your belly."
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After I asked her to do something "Okay, Your Majesty Queen."
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I often tell Gracie I'm glad she's part of our family. One day out of the blue she said "Mommy, are you excited I'm in the family?"
Me: "Yes, Gracie, I'm very excited you're in the family."
"Me too. I'm glad you're in the family." She gives me abig kiss.
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Timmy (6):
looking for a toy "I can't find the two balls. Wait a minute." He smiles and karate chops on either side of his...Yes, you guessed it.
Those younger boys seem to "know" a whole lot more
than their brothers did when they were little.
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When Timmy reminded me the family movie was starting "I hope you don't get too distracted by the computer." Five or ten minutes later he comes back up. I'm still on the computer. "Mom, you're distracted again. Come on!"
How could I resist that!
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"Don't look at the computer or you'll be a computer nerd!"
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Days after a lesson on Hurricanes. "Mom, it's stopped raining. Are we in the eye of the storm or is the storm over?" Such a bright boy!
Makes a homeschooler proud!
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Joey (9):
After I was having a very hard day and my husband explained to him about mommy hormones. "Mom, I know yo've been strict lately, and I forgive you."
Wednesday, August 23, 2006
I Give Up
I thought I found this great way to categorize my posts with blogger without having to cut and paste into a post which takes forever. I'd just manually tag each post with a "Portrait of Family" and then link to the blogger search with "Family" and my URL.
Seems like it should work, right? But it doesn't. I typed the "tag" right into the text box, so why isn't blogger search picking it up? Don't beleive me, go here and see for yourself. It only picks up "family" that's buried in the text.
I'm so glad I quit tagging my 100 plus posts to see if it actually worked and it doesn't. I'm trying to make my life easier and spend less time on line. Almost makes me want to jump ship, but I love my new look and don't want to think of starting over from scratch!
Ugh! Why can't things work the way you want them to!
Seems like it should work, right? But it doesn't. I typed the "tag" right into the text box, so why isn't blogger search picking it up? Don't beleive me, go here and see for yourself. It only picks up "family" that's buried in the text.
I'm so glad I quit tagging my 100 plus posts to see if it actually worked and it doesn't. I'm trying to make my life easier and spend less time on line. Almost makes me want to jump ship, but I love my new look and don't want to think of starting over from scratch!
Ugh! Why can't things work the way you want them to!
Chicken Without Arsenic...It Works for Me
WFMW
WFMW
Did you know that many chicken farms feed an arsenic corn mix to their chickens? So when you think you're eating healthy at one of those fast food resturants by getting a grilled chicken sandwich, are you getting a stomach full of arsenic instead?
I've done some research and Tyson used to use a similar chicken feed, but they've taken the arsenic out. Of course, organic chicken is best, but it's expensive and with feeding a family of six I have to weigh my options with the cost. So when I shop for chicken, Tyson's is what I reach for. I like the individual frozen chicken, especially the pre-cooked grill chicken strips. I throw them in a salad or mix with pasta, make faijitas or serve them plain to the kids.
Chicken without Arsenic...it Works for me.
Check at Shannon's blog for more great ideas!
WFMW
Did you know that many chicken farms feed an arsenic corn mix to their chickens? So when you think you're eating healthy at one of those fast food resturants by getting a grilled chicken sandwich, are you getting a stomach full of arsenic instead?
I've done some research and Tyson used to use a similar chicken feed, but they've taken the arsenic out. Of course, organic chicken is best, but it's expensive and with feeding a family of six I have to weigh my options with the cost. So when I shop for chicken, Tyson's is what I reach for. I like the individual frozen chicken, especially the pre-cooked grill chicken strips. I throw them in a salad or mix with pasta, make faijitas or serve them plain to the kids.Chicken without Arsenic...it Works for me.
Check at Shannon's blog for more great ideas!
Tuesday, August 22, 2006
Gracie's First Day of Preschool
Portrait of Family, Parenting
This is Gracie's third year of preschool. The first year, when she was 2 1/2 she LOVED preschool and didn't think twice about going into the class. Then half way through preschool things changed. She started being clingy and not wanting to let go of me when I dropped her off.
It was my first year homeschooling and I really needed her in preschool two days a week. It was the only day I got any real schooling done with my older boys. She seemed to adjust back into the routine after a while and her teachers were patient, warm and just plain awesome.
Last year I decided to put her in preschool one day a week. I don't know if that was the best idea because I can't remember a day without her clinging to me or struggling to get her to class. A part of me thinks it had a little to do with the teachers she had. They were both new to teaching preschool and both had preschoolers of their own. (Why in the world they wanted to teach other preschoolers is beyond me.) They weren't as warm and loving as Gracie's other teachers had been, but I really needed her in preschool. My little tornado constantly disrupted our homeschool, never sat still, and wouldn't nap. And I didn't want her watching videos all day long.
Today went a little better. I got her excited about preschool last night by saying "If you get up early we can get Krispy Kreme." Now she LOVES Krispy Kreme donuts and we only get them a couple times a year though they're a mile from my house because it send my kids into hyperactive craziness. I know, poor teacher and believe me I've been praying Gracie will not drive her teachers crazy.
She lined up with the other kids outside the room fine while I dropped off field trip money and what not, but when it was time to leave she did the clingy thing. It didn't last long and I think I threatened to eat the other half of her donut if she didn't let go of me. (I know, not the best parenting technique!) But she eventually let go and seemed okay.
So here I sit. I had big plans to clean out the school room which still looks like this while she was away, but guess what I've been doing. BLOGGING! My new venture is taking off and soon we'll have various writing mommies posting every day. So check it out and if you join you'll be put in a drawing for a free autographed book by Tricia Goyer.
It's a little after noon, the boys are engrossed in PS2. I guess there's still time to tackle that school room before lunch.
This is Gracie's third year of preschool. The first year, when she was 2 1/2 she LOVED preschool and didn't think twice about going into the class. Then half way through preschool things changed. She started being clingy and not wanting to let go of me when I dropped her off.
It was my first year homeschooling and I really needed her in preschool two days a week. It was the only day I got any real schooling done with my older boys. She seemed to adjust back into the routine after a while and her teachers were patient, warm and just plain awesome.
Last year I decided to put her in preschool one day a week. I don't know if that was the best idea because I can't remember a day without her clinging to me or struggling to get her to class. A part of me thinks it had a little to do with the teachers she had. They were both new to teaching preschool and both had preschoolers of their own. (Why in the world they wanted to teach other preschoolers is beyond me.) They weren't as warm and loving as Gracie's other teachers had been, but I really needed her in preschool. My little tornado constantly disrupted our homeschool, never sat still, and wouldn't nap. And I didn't want her watching videos all day long.
Today went a little better. I got her excited about preschool last night by saying "If you get up early we can get Krispy Kreme." Now she LOVES Krispy Kreme donuts and we only get them a couple times a year though they're a mile from my house because it send my kids into hyperactive craziness. I know, poor teacher and believe me I've been praying Gracie will not drive her teachers crazy.
She lined up with the other kids outside the room fine while I dropped off field trip money and what not, but when it was time to leave she did the clingy thing. It didn't last long and I think I threatened to eat the other half of her donut if she didn't let go of me. (I know, not the best parenting technique!) But she eventually let go and seemed okay.So here I sit. I had big plans to clean out the school room which still looks like this while she was away, but guess what I've been doing. BLOGGING! My new venture is taking off and soon we'll have various writing mommies posting every day. So check it out and if you join you'll be put in a drawing for a free autographed book by Tricia Goyer.
It's a little after noon, the boys are engrossed in PS2. I guess there's still time to tackle that school room before lunch.
Monday, August 21, 2006
Front Porch Days
Portrait of Fun
Every Day Mommy has invited me and you to "Come on, sit yourself on down." On her front porch. "Coffee's brewing and the tea is ready. How about we chat a little? Look at the kids, they're getting along just fine, playing in the yard, swinging on that old tire swing.
I thought I'd ask you a silly question today... If money and time were no object, what would your ultimate dream vacation be?"
Well, Jules (I take a sip of my tea) That's an easy one. I would take a trip and see it ALL! From Egypt to Italy, from India to the Outback, I'd hop on plane, train, automobile and boat. I love to travel and I love different cultures. So with camera in hand, I'd be a happy traveler!
How about you? Where would you go?
Every Day Mommy has invited me and you to "Come on, sit yourself on down." On her front porch. "Coffee's brewing and the tea is ready. How about we chat a little? Look at the kids, they're getting along just fine, playing in the yard, swinging on that old tire swing.I thought I'd ask you a silly question today... If money and time were no object, what would your ultimate dream vacation be?"
Well, Jules (I take a sip of my tea) That's an easy one. I would take a trip and see it ALL! From Egypt to Italy, from India to the Outback, I'd hop on plane, train, automobile and boat. I love to travel and I love different cultures. So with camera in hand, I'd be a happy traveler!
How about you? Where would you go?
Sunday, August 20, 2006
Learning Phonics Can Be Dangerous
Portrait of Homeschooling, Fun, Family
I need to put a warning on this post because though hilariously funny, it has potential to be offensive. I'll try to be as non-offensive as I can as I relate to you what had me rolling on the floor, and my husband giving me one of those head shakes with the hidden message of "you asked for it by laughing. Now you get yourself out of this one."
Epilogue/prologue? Growing up in my home THE word was used quite often, every day in fact by my mother, myself and my sister. Even now, though grandma is a saved by Grace, Born Again Christian she lets one of her expletives fly and I look in shock, especially when it's in front of my children. Luckily, my children are innocent enough not to realize a bad word when they hear it! Hopefully next time I'll be wise enough NOT to laugh.
UPDATED:
I started to say this in the comment section, but thought it might be better said here:
Just to set the record straight, over the course of my Christian adult life, I too have used many "choice" words in anger, meant to hurt the one they were aimed at. I think the condition of our hearts is much more important than the actual words we use. "From the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks." That scripture is always convicting for me since it's my mouth that usually gets me into trouble.
I need to put a warning on this post because though hilariously funny, it has potential to be offensive. I'll try to be as non-offensive as I can as I relate to you what had me rolling on the floor, and my husband giving me one of those head shakes with the hidden message of "you asked for it by laughing. Now you get yourself out of this one."
After dinner Timmy (6), was playing with some phonics tiles. Earlier I helped him write the sentence CAN YOU JUMP? He sounded out the CAN and JUMP, I just helped with the YOU.
While I sorted the color tiles with Gracie, I heard Timmy sounding out a new word. In his innocent, cute little voice he made the "fffff...." sound, then the long "u" sound and the last letter was "K".
He proceeded to sound out the word perfectly! (Guess I'm a better phonics teacher than I thought.) I couldn't help but giggle at the bad word I hadn't heard in years, and he continued saying it with more enthusiasm. Rolling with hysterics, I then tell Timmy to go show his dad what word he spelled. And Timmy did, saying it over and over again. Finally, after I was able to control myself I said, "enough. That's a very, very, very, bad word."
He stopped but was still curious as to what it meant so I said it was as bad as ...then I said some bathroom word I can't even remember what it was. He laughed a little and hasn't said the word since.
Epilogue/prologue? Growing up in my home THE word was used quite often, every day in fact by my mother, myself and my sister. Even now, though grandma is a saved by Grace, Born Again Christian she lets one of her expletives fly and I look in shock, especially when it's in front of my children. Luckily, my children are innocent enough not to realize a bad word when they hear it! Hopefully next time I'll be wise enough NOT to laugh.
UPDATED:
I started to say this in the comment section, but thought it might be better said here:
Just to set the record straight, over the course of my Christian adult life, I too have used many "choice" words in anger, meant to hurt the one they were aimed at. I think the condition of our hearts is much more important than the actual words we use. "From the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks." That scripture is always convicting for me since it's my mouth that usually gets me into trouble.
Onward Christian Soldier
Portrait of Faith
I've been fighting a war for years...and losing. Though there has been no bloodshed and death, the war is real and damaging, mostly to myself but also to those I care about most. Some days the battles are fierce and endless and I bow my head in defeat. Other days I withstand the enemy and claim victory, knowing that tomorrow will be another day and another battle.
I've won the first battle of the flesh today. I woke up at 6:30 am and though I battled whether or not to roll over and stay in bed , my flesh lost and here I am. Quiet house, yummy coffee. Solitude and my computer.
Over the years I've seen my flesh grow weaker and undisciplined...
But I know "...our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms." Ephesians 6:12
I know it, and yet I don't put on my armor daily. Most times I don't even recognize there is a battle going on until I've lost. This summer I've been going through the armor of God unit study with my children (though not consistently...seems the only thing I do consistently is sin...SIGH). I know I need to pick it up again and instead of pointing at the splinter in my children's eyes, look in the mirror and see my own sprouting seedling rooted deep in my own.
Why is crucifying the flesh so hard? Jesus knew the answer! "Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the body is weak." (Matthew 26:41)
For fun, I wanted to see what THE MESSAGE Bible had to say about it:
"Stay alert; be in prayer so you don't wander into temptation without even knowing you're in danger. There is a part of you that is eager, ready for anything in God. But there's another part that's as lazy as an old dog sleeping by the fire."
Yep, knew I was lazy, eager for God, but wait...what's that...go back and read it again (I'm talking to myself here.) STAY ALERT and...something I've been convicted about lately and one of the keys to winning the battle. PRAYER.
Over the years I've gotten too busy for real prayer. Sure, I talk to the Lord constantly especially in times of trouble and I "think" things over and call that prayer. As a "doer" prayer is hard for me. It just doesn't seem like I'm accomplishing anything. But that too is a tactic of the enemy. He knows my weaknesses and will use them to his advantage.
Okay, bringing it all back home...I am in a war! I'm a soldier trying to fight the good fight, but I've been fighting without my Commanding Officer. I've finally re-remembered I can't fight on my own and win. I know, I've been trying and failing for so long. But I will lose if I don't consult my CO and use the weapons He has given me. The armor, the Word and prayer.
And I also need to remember that to win a war you fight one battle at a time.
One battle at a time.
If you're needing some inspiration in your battle go here. I'm headed there now!
I've been fighting a war for years...and losing. Though there has been no bloodshed and death, the war is real and damaging, mostly to myself but also to those I care about most. Some days the battles are fierce and endless and I bow my head in defeat. Other days I withstand the enemy and claim victory, knowing that tomorrow will be another day and another battle.
I've won the first battle of the flesh today. I woke up at 6:30 am and though I battled whether or not to roll over and stay in bed , my flesh lost and here I am. Quiet house, yummy coffee. Solitude and my computer.
Over the years I've seen my flesh grow weaker and undisciplined...
"Just 30 more minutes in bed. The kids can make their own breakfast. It's quiet downstairs. I sleep best in the morning hours because I don't get to bed until after midnight and when I do get to bed before midnight I toss and turn for two hours so why go to bed early?"
"What's one piece of cake matter? It's a birthday party. But when you have two birthday cakes per birthday and several parties over the course of Spring, and choose yummy fattening foods instead of salads, and eat an extra couple of pizzas at the buffet, and that extra five pounds you managed NOT to gain over Christmas suddenly appears on your posterior and your clothes feel tighter, then IT really does matter."
"I just don't have to time to exercise or I'm too tired. Yes, it's true, To fit exercise in something has to give, but it seems that now at 37 yrs. old I can't get away with NOT exercising and NOT gaining weight and on my 5 ft 3 1/2 inch. frame which in my opinion still boasts and EXTRA 20 lbs. of baby fat, any more added weight is unacceptable. So why did I have those extra pieces of cake yesterday?"
And I won't even mention how many times a day I loose my patient with my family and my "angry eyebrows" rear their ugly, bushy little heads!
But I know "...our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms." Ephesians 6:12
I know it, and yet I don't put on my armor daily. Most times I don't even recognize there is a battle going on until I've lost. This summer I've been going through the armor of God unit study with my children (though not consistently...seems the only thing I do consistently is sin...SIGH). I know I need to pick it up again and instead of pointing at the splinter in my children's eyes, look in the mirror and see my own sprouting seedling rooted deep in my own.
Why is crucifying the flesh so hard? Jesus knew the answer! "Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the body is weak." (Matthew 26:41)
For fun, I wanted to see what THE MESSAGE Bible had to say about it:
"Stay alert; be in prayer so you don't wander into temptation without even knowing you're in danger. There is a part of you that is eager, ready for anything in God. But there's another part that's as lazy as an old dog sleeping by the fire."
Yep, knew I was lazy, eager for God, but wait...what's that...go back and read it again (I'm talking to myself here.) STAY ALERT and...something I've been convicted about lately and one of the keys to winning the battle. PRAYER.
Over the years I've gotten too busy for real prayer. Sure, I talk to the Lord constantly especially in times of trouble and I "think" things over and call that prayer. As a "doer" prayer is hard for me. It just doesn't seem like I'm accomplishing anything. But that too is a tactic of the enemy. He knows my weaknesses and will use them to his advantage.
Okay, bringing it all back home...I am in a war! I'm a soldier trying to fight the good fight, but I've been fighting without my Commanding Officer. I've finally re-remembered I can't fight on my own and win. I know, I've been trying and failing for so long. But I will lose if I don't consult my CO and use the weapons He has given me. The armor, the Word and prayer.
And I also need to remember that to win a war you fight one battle at a time.
One battle at a time.
If you're needing some inspiration in your battle go here. I'm headed there now!
Saturday, August 19, 2006
My Home is Alive with the Sound of Music
Portrait of Family, Parenting, Faith
For me, nothing is more beautiful than listening to my children sing. When Chris, my oldest, was two years old I caught him changing the words to the popular children's song "itsy, bitsy, spider." In perfect tune, he sang "I want some pancakes, pancakes, pancakes, pancakes..." I knew at that moment that he was gifted and started looking for ways to get him involved in music, but I couldn't find anything for a two year old.
When he was three years old, I took him to his first musical, The Wizard of Oz. We both marveled at the children singing and dancing on stage. After the show they handed out pamphlets to a musical theatre school. I signed him up and he's been singing and performing ever since.
My proudest moment came when he performed the part of Dodger from Oliver. How he got the part was a miraculous story in itself, but years ago after seeing the same musical I knew one day Chris would be perfect for the part. And he was.
Though he loves to sing and perform, he hates to be told to sing. And don't ever put him on the spot. He won't sing for anything. Believe me I've tried to bribe him with money, and it doesn't work. He wants to sing when he wants.
Over the years I've had to "encourage" his gift and talent. This is one area I won't budge in because I know his voice is a gift from God and I want him to use his talent for God's glory.
Chris is 12 now and still loves to sing and eat pancakes! His baby voice has grown into a beautiful sound that still brings tears to my eyes. I love to catch him singing and it really brings joy and peace to my soul. And for me, that's the beauty of music.
Check out the rest of the carnival.
For me, nothing is more beautiful than listening to my children sing. When Chris, my oldest, was two years old I caught him changing the words to the popular children's song "itsy, bitsy, spider." In perfect tune, he sang "I want some pancakes, pancakes, pancakes, pancakes..." I knew at that moment that he was gifted and started looking for ways to get him involved in music, but I couldn't find anything for a two year old.
When he was three years old, I took him to his first musical, The Wizard of Oz. We both marveled at the children singing and dancing on stage. After the show they handed out pamphlets to a musical theatre school. I signed him up and he's been singing and performing ever since.
My proudest moment came when he performed the part of Dodger from Oliver. How he got the part was a miraculous story in itself, but years ago after seeing the same musical I knew one day Chris would be perfect for the part. And he was.
Though he loves to sing and perform, he hates to be told to sing. And don't ever put him on the spot. He won't sing for anything. Believe me I've tried to bribe him with money, and it doesn't work. He wants to sing when he wants.
Over the years I've had to "encourage" his gift and talent. This is one area I won't budge in because I know his voice is a gift from God and I want him to use his talent for God's glory.
Chris is 12 now and still loves to sing and eat pancakes! His baby voice has grown into a beautiful sound that still brings tears to my eyes. I love to catch him singing and it really brings joy and peace to my soul. And for me, that's the beauty of music.
Check out the rest of the carnival.
Facts of Life for the Cyber Generation
Portrait of Fun
I got this in an email the other day. Maybe I'll try this out when it's time to have the "talk" with my kids. Of course, I believe in abstinence before marriage, but I just couldn't resist this clever take on the "birds and the bees."
I got this in an email the other day. Maybe I'll try this out when it's time to have the "talk" with my kids. Of course, I believe in abstinence before marriage, but I just couldn't resist this clever take on the "birds and the bees."
A Little boy goes to his father and asks "Daddy, how was I born?"
The father answers: "Well son, I guess one day you will need to find out anyway!
Your Mom and I first got together in a chat room on Yahoo. Then I set up a date via e-mail with your Mom and we met at a cyber-cafe.
We sneaked into a secluded room, where your mother agreed to a download from my hard drive. As soon as I was ready to upload, we discovered that neither one of us had used a firewall, and since it was too late to hit the delete button, nine months later a little Pop-Up appeared that said:
You got Male!
Friday, August 18, 2006
My Life is One BIG Mess
Portrait of Homeschooling, Family, Parenting,
Do you ever feel like your life is a mess? You know, toys thrown all over the room, and clothes scattered across the bedroom floor. No matter how much I clean, throw away, give away, and sell, the mess just seems to multiply.
Twice a year I gather up the kids old clothes and toys for a big consignment sale. I just packed the car and will drop it off tomorrow. Then I get to shop for more STUFF on Saturday. Actually, it's a great deal. I get my little girl's entire wardrobe in one shot. Then next year I turn around and sell it.
This year I'm a little wiser though. For this summer I bought all these cute capri and short sets, but she prefers dresses. So when I go shop for her, I have to remember it's for her and not me. That means no jeans (she has enough in her closet), nothing that restricts her neck like sweaters, turtle necks and hoodies. So what's left to buy? Dresses, dresses, shoes, tights and more dresses!
I just hope I don't come home with more STUFF than what I got rid of!!!!
Do you ever feel like your life is a mess? You know, toys thrown all over the room, and clothes scattered across the bedroom floor. No matter how much I clean, throw away, give away, and sell, the mess just seems to multiply.
Twice a year I gather up the kids old clothes and toys for a big consignment sale. I just packed the car and will drop it off tomorrow. Then I get to shop for more STUFF on Saturday. Actually, it's a great deal. I get my little girl's entire wardrobe in one shot. Then next year I turn around and sell it.
This year I'm a little wiser though. For this summer I bought all these cute capri and short sets, but she prefers dresses. So when I go shop for her, I have to remember it's for her and not me. That means no jeans (she has enough in her closet), nothing that restricts her neck like sweaters, turtle necks and hoodies. So what's left to buy? Dresses, dresses, shoes, tights and more dresses!
I just hope I don't come home with more STUFF than what I got rid of!!!!
Thursday, August 17, 2006
Homeschool Already?
Portrait of Homeschooling
Our homeschool will not officially start for a couple of weeks ( keep saying that, don't I). My first goal is to clean out the school room, which looks like this. Yes, that is my dinning room set used as a desk and bookcase.
So to keep me motivated, I'm posting some links to various homeschool sites and posts I've found. Check them out. They just might help and inspire you whether or not you homeschool.
Ready, Set, Homeschool Great first day of school ideas!
Sign Me Up Planning volunteering into your homeschool
UPDATED:
Here's some on the "schooling" debate...
Hidden Messages ROFLOL!
Pt. 2
Pt. 3
Public, Private or Homeschool?
Homeschool Meme
Seven Habits of a Highly Successful School Year
Thirteen Reasons Heather Loves Homeschooling
Decluttering that school space Juat what I need!
Check Back for Updates as I add more to this list.
Our homeschool will not officially start for a couple of weeks ( keep saying that, don't I). My first goal is to clean out the school room, which looks like this. Yes, that is my dinning room set used as a desk and bookcase.
So to keep me motivated, I'm posting some links to various homeschool sites and posts I've found. Check them out. They just might help and inspire you whether or not you homeschool.
Ready, Set, Homeschool Great first day of school ideas!
Sign Me Up Planning volunteering into your homeschool
UPDATED:
Here's some on the "schooling" debate...
Hidden Messages ROFLOL!
Pt. 2
Pt. 3
Public, Private or Homeschool?
Homeschool Meme
Seven Habits of a Highly Successful School Year
Thirteen Reasons Heather Loves Homeschooling
Decluttering that school space Juat what I need!
Check Back for Updates as I add more to this list.
Monday, August 14, 2006
Going, Going, Gone...
We'll be visiting family for the next couple of days. It was a sudden unexpected trip. My sister and her family might be moving to the mid west from NY, so they're checking out the place. They'll be five hours away, so we're driving to see them.In the meantime if you want something to read, check out my Masterpieces on the side bar. They date back to my humble beginnings as a blogger. And don't forget, as always, to leave a comment! Isn't that what bloggers live for?
It's Okay to Be Bad
Portrait of Faith
Week four of Experiencing Christ Within is all about sin.
The bad news it that we're all sinners. No one is good! Not one. When God looks down from heaven, He sees us all the same. Prostitute, deacon, drug dealer, preacher. We're all sinners.
Sure, there are people who do not serve God and who do good. I'm not denying that. But the difference is the standard or the measurement we use to determine good.
That's how God sees us. We're all sinners because of our sin nature (thanks Adam and Eve) because it goes against the very nature of God.
According to Psalm 53:2-3, "God looks down from heaven on the children of men to see if they understand, who seek God. Every one of them has turned aside; they have together become corrupt; there is none who does good, no, not one."
[SIGH], So are we a hopeless lot, destined to live a sinful life? Yes, and no! I think the title of this chapter says it all, "The Journey to Radical Dependence."
I haven't finished the chapter yet, but I think the author is setting the scene for how much we need God. How much we need the saving Grace of his son. No, there is not one that is good. Not me, not you!
So why is it okay to be bad, as the title of this post suggest? Because as I see it, if we weren't bad or full of sin, there'd be no need for Jesus. Through Christ we are forgiven and made a new. I can't wait to see how the end of the chapter (and me) turns out!
Week four of Experiencing Christ Within is all about sin.The bad news it that we're all sinners. No one is good! Not one. When God looks down from heaven, He sees us all the same. Prostitute, deacon, drug dealer, preacher. We're all sinners.
Sure, there are people who do not serve God and who do good. I'm not denying that. But the difference is the standard or the measurement we use to determine good.
Dwight Edwards explains it like this:
"We can easily slip into a 'street level' view of goodness. It's like walking down a city street sidewalk and comparing the heights of those you pass by. A few people happen to be well over six feet tall and really stand out from the crowd. But if you were to look down on the scene from atop a hundred-story skyscraper, everybody on the sidewalk would appear equally tiny."
That's how God sees us. We're all sinners because of our sin nature (thanks Adam and Eve) because it goes against the very nature of God.
According to Psalm 53:2-3, "God looks down from heaven on the children of men to see if they understand, who seek God. Every one of them has turned aside; they have together become corrupt; there is none who does good, no, not one."
[SIGH], So are we a hopeless lot, destined to live a sinful life? Yes, and no! I think the title of this chapter says it all, "The Journey to Radical Dependence."
I haven't finished the chapter yet, but I think the author is setting the scene for how much we need God. How much we need the saving Grace of his son. No, there is not one that is good. Not me, not you!
So why is it okay to be bad, as the title of this post suggest? Because as I see it, if we weren't bad or full of sin, there'd be no need for Jesus. Through Christ we are forgiven and made a new. I can't wait to see how the end of the chapter (and me) turns out!
Sunday, August 13, 2006
My Eyes Are Bigger Than My Schedule
Portrait of Parenting, Family
I'm beginning to think I've bitten off more I can chew.
Homeschool is just around the corner, albeit our corner is at least two weeks away. But the activities seem to be starting up. Homeschool PE, Flag football, Musical Theatre, dance, gymnastics, swimming! Thank goodness Timmy (6) told me early this summer. "Mom, don't sign me up for anything without asking me."
Well, I've asked and he's said "no" to everything except the one thing I haven't checked into...soccer.
Our schedule is alreay jam packed. Whoever said homeschoolers aren't socialized really didn't know what they were talking about. My kids are too socialized! And I'm sure it's my fault for wanting them to try and do everything. Good thing, they're not interested in every thing.
Here's a glimpse into our crazy schedule this fall.
Mondays: PE for the boys, musical theatre for Joey
Tuesday: Homeschool class for Chris and Joey, Preschool and swimming for Grace, Musical theatre for Chris.
Wednesday: Tap and Ballet for Grace, church at night
Thursday: PE for the boys, preschool for Grace, flag football for Chris
Friday: Homeschool co-op for us all.
Then there's Joey's gymnastics that I haven't been scheduleted in yet. And I should probably sign Joey up for piano. I decided against lessons for Chris because all he does is complain about lessons. I'm just going to let Joey "teach" Chris at home.
The best thing about the schedule is that for the evening activities I get to go to the gym and work out. Since I've started homeschooling, my exercise schedule has suffered. I'm determined to make exercise a priority this year!
My schedule is really more busy for me than the kids. So what do you think? Do you think I'll have anytime for blogging?
How about you? What does your schedule look like?
I'm beginning to think I've bitten off more I can chew.
Homeschool is just around the corner, albeit our corner is at least two weeks away. But the activities seem to be starting up. Homeschool PE, Flag football, Musical Theatre, dance, gymnastics, swimming! Thank goodness Timmy (6) told me early this summer. "Mom, don't sign me up for anything without asking me."
Well, I've asked and he's said "no" to everything except the one thing I haven't checked into...soccer.
Our schedule is alreay jam packed. Whoever said homeschoolers aren't socialized really didn't know what they were talking about. My kids are too socialized! And I'm sure it's my fault for wanting them to try and do everything. Good thing, they're not interested in every thing.
Here's a glimpse into our crazy schedule this fall.
Mondays: PE for the boys, musical theatre for Joey
Tuesday: Homeschool class for Chris and Joey, Preschool and swimming for Grace, Musical theatre for Chris.
Wednesday: Tap and Ballet for Grace, church at night
Thursday: PE for the boys, preschool for Grace, flag football for Chris
Friday: Homeschool co-op for us all.
Then there's Joey's gymnastics that I haven't been scheduleted in yet. And I should probably sign Joey up for piano. I decided against lessons for Chris because all he does is complain about lessons. I'm just going to let Joey "teach" Chris at home.
The best thing about the schedule is that for the evening activities I get to go to the gym and work out. Since I've started homeschooling, my exercise schedule has suffered. I'm determined to make exercise a priority this year!
My schedule is really more busy for me than the kids. So what do you think? Do you think I'll have anytime for blogging?
How about you? What does your schedule look like?
Book Meme
Portrait of Writing
Have a blessed Sunday and in your leisure check out my book meme over at Writer's of Inspirational Novels, my group blog.
Have a blessed Sunday and in your leisure check out my book meme over at Writer's of Inspirational Novels, my group blog.
Saturday, August 12, 2006
A Way to a Boy's Heart...
Portrait of Fun, Family
Timmy, my six-year-old, just got back from his first ever "friend's" sleepover.
Earlier I talked to my friend to get the scoop on how he was doing. She said she asked Timmy if he wanted to go home. Timmy said, "No, I'm having the time of my life!"
After I gave him a big "miss you" hug, I asked, "so did you have fun?"
He giggled and said, "I had chocolate cake, ice pops, pizza, and bubble gum."
I guess that answers my question!
Timmy, my six-year-old, just got back from his first ever "friend's" sleepover.
Earlier I talked to my friend to get the scoop on how he was doing. She said she asked Timmy if he wanted to go home. Timmy said, "No, I'm having the time of my life!"
After I gave him a big "miss you" hug, I asked, "so did you have fun?"
He giggled and said, "I had chocolate cake, ice pops, pizza, and bubble gum."
I guess that answers my question!
Friday, August 11, 2006
Doggy Days
Portrait of Family, Fun
I'm not a dog person. In fact, I'm not even an animal person. You'll never see me holding up a PETA sign . But some how God softened my heart to this little King Charles Cavalier and on Valentine's day this year we told our four we were going over a friend's house to pick up "something. "
When the owners of the pup handed him over to my kids, my oldest who's wanted a dog all his life had a blank expression on his face. Later he told me he didn't believe the puppy was ours until we took him to the car.
Well, this guy is really hard not to like. I did all the research and wanted the perfect family dog and our little Jedi is the perfect family dog. Sure he's had his fair share of accidents, and chewed a few toys, but he toughs it out when Gracie abuses him, and he'll rough house with the older boys. He's always ready to snuggle up on my lap if I let him, in fact this breed can be a little "needy" for love.
Right now he's snuggled up on my lap as I type. Which brings me to another question. Why in the world does the pup always groom himself while he sits in my lap?
I'm not a dog person. In fact, I'm not even an animal person. You'll never see me holding up a PETA sign . But some how God softened my heart to this little King Charles Cavalier and on Valentine's day this year we told our four we were going over a friend's house to pick up "something. "When the owners of the pup handed him over to my kids, my oldest who's wanted a dog all his life had a blank expression on his face. Later he told me he didn't believe the puppy was ours until we took him to the car.
Well, this guy is really hard not to like. I did all the research and wanted the perfect family dog and our little Jedi is the perfect family dog. Sure he's had his fair share of accidents, and chewed a few toys, but he toughs it out when Gracie abuses him, and he'll rough house with the older boys. He's always ready to snuggle up on my lap if I let him, in fact this breed can be a little "needy" for love.Right now he's snuggled up on my lap as I type. Which brings me to another question. Why in the world does the pup always groom himself while he sits in my lap?
Thursday, August 10, 2006
And They Say Women Are Finicky!
Timmy, my tame six year old nearly threw a fit tonight. Though fits are out of the ordinary from this little guy, when he does throw them it's a whopper.
This "almost" fit was brought on by the fact that he he's finicky when it comes to showers and baths. Sometimes he likes them and other times he doesn't. And since we went to the water park today, he got upset and cried heartfelt tears of how he doesn't want to go back tomorrow (we have plans to take two friends to the water park) and that he just wanted to stay home with me.
While my mommy heart was gushing with love, my patience was waning. I'd already had it out with the older two because they couldn't "get along" and both boys lost the privilege of having a sleepover with the two friends we were taking to the water park.
So my husband stepped in and offered to take the little guy to the office with him tomorrow, but Timmy wasn't going for it. He wanted to stay home with me.
Now I know all of this was coming from being over tired and hubby said he would handle it so I went upstairs to read Little Pilgrims Progress to the older boys. (On a side note, we should have finished that book months ago, but my boys always end up goofing around when we read. I thought homeschool kids always gathered around mom with their eyes wide with expectation as mom read for hours. Yeah, right.)
Anyway, last I left Timmy he was heading for a full blown fit. After three chapters of Little Pilgrim's Progress (the chapters are only a page or two long) I said good night to the boys and went to find Timmy.
While I doubt that will ever be the case, I'm just so glad my "angel boy" as we dubbed him as a baby, was back to normal.
I attributed his emotional turn around to the warm shower, but Timmy informed me that he got rid of the grouchies in his sister's room. Now all I have to do is figure out what happened in there, bottle it up and sell it on eBay. I'm sure I'll make millions.
BTW, I still don't know if he's going to the water park tomorrow, but I'm not going to ask him until morning. I don't want to mess with a good thing and we know how finicky six year olds can be.
This "almost" fit was brought on by the fact that he he's finicky when it comes to showers and baths. Sometimes he likes them and other times he doesn't. And since we went to the water park today, he got upset and cried heartfelt tears of how he doesn't want to go back tomorrow (we have plans to take two friends to the water park) and that he just wanted to stay home with me.
While my mommy heart was gushing with love, my patience was waning. I'd already had it out with the older two because they couldn't "get along" and both boys lost the privilege of having a sleepover with the two friends we were taking to the water park.
So my husband stepped in and offered to take the little guy to the office with him tomorrow, but Timmy wasn't going for it. He wanted to stay home with me.
Now I know all of this was coming from being over tired and hubby said he would handle it so I went upstairs to read Little Pilgrims Progress to the older boys. (On a side note, we should have finished that book months ago, but my boys always end up goofing around when we read. I thought homeschool kids always gathered around mom with their eyes wide with expectation as mom read for hours. Yeah, right.)
Anyway, last I left Timmy he was heading for a full blown fit. After three chapters of Little Pilgrim's Progress (the chapters are only a page or two long) I said good night to the boys and went to find Timmy.
He was in the bathroom, brushing his teeth, or so I thought. As I peeked in I heard squeals of laughter and delight...coming from the shower. Timmy opened the curtain and giggled. "Mom, you'll never believe it. Guess."
I had no idea what he was talking about but ventured a guess. "Uh, you lost a tooth." (He hasn't lost one yet and none were loose."
"Nope," More giggles as I watched him dance around in the shower. "I'm going to take a shower everyday." More giggles.
"No way," This truly was a miracle.
"I just love the warm water. I'm going to take a shower two times a day. Once in the morning and once at night!"
While I doubt that will ever be the case, I'm just so glad my "angel boy" as we dubbed him as a baby, was back to normal.
I attributed his emotional turn around to the warm shower, but Timmy informed me that he got rid of the grouchies in his sister's room. Now all I have to do is figure out what happened in there, bottle it up and sell it on eBay. I'm sure I'll make millions.
BTW, I still don't know if he's going to the water park tomorrow, but I'm not going to ask him until morning. I don't want to mess with a good thing and we know how finicky six year olds can be.
A Novel...Meme?
Meredith Efken wrote this and issued this tag. So here it goes!
A Novel Idea:
If you could write a novel about any subject, what would it be? (Just the subject, don't give away your plot idea!)
Okay, there are so many subjects I would like to write about. Actually, a couple I've written about but have yet to be published, so in the name of self promotion I'll share my current WIPs and WHY I've written them.
Okay, I guess that's more than was asked, but I'm not really know for being succinct.
So now I tag...
Georgiana D
Cara Putman
Ronie Kendig
Tricia Goyer
Cynthia Green
And everyone else on the Writer...Interrupted Webring
Now, here's the rules;if you get tagged (or if you just want to play anyway), you should:
Answer one o f these questions on your blog,
Link back to whoever tagged you (or wherever you found the idea)
Tag 5 (or so) other bloggers.
Plus, check out previous responses, and if you know of a novel that pertains to the subject someone wishes they could write or would like to read about, suggest the novel to them in a comment.
A Novel Idea:
If you could write a novel about any subject, what would it be? (Just the subject, don't give away your plot idea!)
Okay, there are so many subjects I would like to write about. Actually, a couple I've written about but have yet to be published, so in the name of self promotion I'll share my current WIPs and WHY I've written them.
My Young Adult Biblical fiction based on the life of Christ.
I'm fascinated with Jewish history and it shows in this WIP where I intertwine faith, tradition, adventure, and the Gospel. Only problem is the publishing houses aren't buying Biblical fiction from a nobody, but I would so like to get an exciting Gospel into the hands of today's preteens and teens.
My Urban Suspense which deals with issues of temptations and addictions.
I think Christian fiction is missing out on a certain audience. They're the Christians that secretly watch Sex in the City, and Desperate Housewives. Come on now, confess. You've at least seen ONE episode of each. Anyway, my WIP is set in NYC and follows the struggles of a very real, very committed Christian who is struggling with his addictions. Isn't that real life? I wish more real life would make it into Christian books, and I've seen a couple gracing the shelves and have yet to read.
My Juvenile Missions Adventure Series
I love God's people and God's cultures. I want to write a series that covers the adventures of missionary kids living in a different culture. While in college, I spent 6 months in Nigeria and want to pass on some things I've learned in a fun adventurous way. In today's world I think the more kids learn about people different than themselves, the more God's love will be able to work through them.
Okay, I guess that's more than was asked, but I'm not really know for being succinct.
So now I tag...
Georgiana D
Cara Putman
Ronie Kendig
Tricia Goyer
Cynthia Green
And everyone else on the Writer...Interrupted Webring
Now, here's the rules;if you get tagged (or if you just want to play anyway), you should:
Answer one o f these questions on your blog,
Link back to whoever tagged you (or wherever you found the idea)
Tag 5 (or so) other bloggers.
Plus, check out previous responses, and if you know of a novel that pertains to the subject someone wishes they could write or would like to read about, suggest the novel to them in a comment.
Everyday Children
I've taken up the challenge and entered Everyday Mommy's writing contest.
What My Children Taught Me about God
Even while inside, my children grew
Vast amounts of love from God came through.
Endless months of waiting to see their face
Reminded me of God’s love and His patient grace.
Years of parenting and sacrifice every day
Does not compare with the price God’s son had to pay.
Always willing to forgive, accept, and love
Yes, my children are much like my Father above.
Children teach though WE might not see
How truly spiritual they can be.
In one simple smile or little touch the
Love of God can be seen so much.
Did God give me children so I can teach? No,
Rather my children have taught beyond my reach.
Every second of every day
No one else teaches about God’s love in the same way.
What My Children Taught Me about God
Even while inside, my children grew
Vast amounts of love from God came through.
Endless months of waiting to see their face
Reminded me of God’s love and His patient grace.
Years of parenting and sacrifice every day
Does not compare with the price God’s son had to pay.
Always willing to forgive, accept, and love
Yes, my children are much like my Father above.
Children teach though WE might not see
How truly spiritual they can be.
In one simple smile or little touch the
Love of God can be seen so much.
Did God give me children so I can teach? No,
Rather my children have taught beyond my reach.
Every second of every day
No one else teaches about God’s love in the same way.
Wednesday, August 09, 2006
Pint Size Dress Up Closet
After having three boys, I was ecstatic when my little girl came along. Now I'd be able to trade the baseball hats in for bows and shorts for dresses.My little girl is four now and by the time she could dress herself at age two she's been changing clothes at least three times a day. Why didn't anyone tell me this? Oh, and now that she' four she only wants to wear dresses. What about all those cute short and capri sets I bought her? Well, basically it was a waste of money.
About a year ago I got tired of her messing up her big closet. I'd come in her room to see her pretty church dresses thrown all over the place and a gigantic mess for me to clean.
I wanted a solution and thought if she had her own "closet"where I could put her princess and play dresses, that would solve all my problems.
I searched on line and at ever store in town, but couldn't find one small enough or affordable, until I found this closet at Target. It's sturdy enough (after we anchored it to the wall for my little climber. Hey, she has three big brothers!) and big enough to hold all her favorite clothes. My husband added the bar and wallah! A perfect pint size closet for my little princess! It's truly been a life saver for me and her!
Go here for more great ideas
Tuesday, August 08, 2006
Raising Boys
I have three boys ages 12, 9 and 6 and though we've had our share of emergency room visits and clogged toilets, my boys are fairly tame compared to the family below. Read on and enjoy this. Moms of boys will really appreciate this...
a) For those who have grown children, this is hysterical.
b) For those who have children past this age, this is hilarious.
c) For those who have children this age, this is not funny.
d) For those who have children nearing this age, this is a warning.
e) For those who have not yet had children, this is birth control.
The following came from an anonymous mother in Austin, Texas (I'll bet theAustin Fire Dept knows which one!):Things I've learned from my boys (honest and not kidding):
1.) A king size waterbed holds enough water to fill a 2000 sq. ft. house 4inches deep.
2.) If you spray hair spray on dust bunnies and run over them with rollerblades, they can ignite.
3.) A 3-year old boy's voice is louder than 200 adults in a crowdedrestaurant.
4.) If you hook a dog leash over a ceiling fan, the motor is not strongenough to rotate a 42 pound boy wearing Batman underwear and a Supermancape. It is strong enough, however, if tied to a paint can, to spread painton all four walls of a 20x20 ft. room.
5.) You should not throw baseballs up when the ceiling fan is on. When usinga ceiling fan as a bat, you have to throw the ball up a few times before youget a hit. A ceiling fan can hit a baseball a long way.
6.) The glass in windows (even double-pane) doesn't stop a baseball hit by aceiling fan.
7.) When you hear the toilet flush and the words "uh oh", it's already toolate.
8.) Brake fluid mixed with Clorox makes smoke, and lots of it.
9) A six-year old boy can start a fire with a flint rock even though a36-year-old man says they can only do it in the movies.
10.) Certain Legos will pass through the digestive tract of a 4-year oldboy.
11.) Play dough and microwave should not be used in the same sentence.
12.) Super glue is forever.
13.) No matter how much Jell-O you put in a swimming pool you still can'twalk on water.
14.) Pool filters do not like Jell-O.
15.) VCR's do not eject "PB & J" sandwiches even though TV commercials showthey do.
16.) Garbage bags do not make good parachutes.
17.) Marbles in gas tanks make lots of noise when driving.
18.) You probably DO NOT want to know what that odor is.
19.) Always look in the oven before you turn it on; plastic toys do not likeovens.
20.) The fire department in Austin, TX has a 5-minute response time.
21.) The spin cycle on the washing machine does not make earthworms dizzy.
22.) It will, however, make cats dizzy.
23.) Cats throw up twice their body weight when dizzy.
24.) 80% of women will pass this on to almost all of their friends, with orwithout kids.
25.) 80% of men who read this will try mixing the Clorox and brake fluid.
So do you have any stories of your own to add?
a) For those who have grown children, this is hysterical.
b) For those who have children past this age, this is hilarious.
c) For those who have children this age, this is not funny.
d) For those who have children nearing this age, this is a warning.
e) For those who have not yet had children, this is birth control.
The following came from an anonymous mother in Austin, Texas (I'll bet theAustin Fire Dept knows which one!):Things I've learned from my boys (honest and not kidding):
1.) A king size waterbed holds enough water to fill a 2000 sq. ft. house 4inches deep.
2.) If you spray hair spray on dust bunnies and run over them with rollerblades, they can ignite.
3.) A 3-year old boy's voice is louder than 200 adults in a crowdedrestaurant.
4.) If you hook a dog leash over a ceiling fan, the motor is not strongenough to rotate a 42 pound boy wearing Batman underwear and a Supermancape. It is strong enough, however, if tied to a paint can, to spread painton all four walls of a 20x20 ft. room.
5.) You should not throw baseballs up when the ceiling fan is on. When usinga ceiling fan as a bat, you have to throw the ball up a few times before youget a hit. A ceiling fan can hit a baseball a long way.
6.) The glass in windows (even double-pane) doesn't stop a baseball hit by aceiling fan.
7.) When you hear the toilet flush and the words "uh oh", it's already toolate.
8.) Brake fluid mixed with Clorox makes smoke, and lots of it.
9) A six-year old boy can start a fire with a flint rock even though a36-year-old man says they can only do it in the movies.
10.) Certain Legos will pass through the digestive tract of a 4-year oldboy.
11.) Play dough and microwave should not be used in the same sentence.
12.) Super glue is forever.
13.) No matter how much Jell-O you put in a swimming pool you still can'twalk on water.
14.) Pool filters do not like Jell-O.
15.) VCR's do not eject "PB & J" sandwiches even though TV commercials showthey do.
16.) Garbage bags do not make good parachutes.
17.) Marbles in gas tanks make lots of noise when driving.
18.) You probably DO NOT want to know what that odor is.
19.) Always look in the oven before you turn it on; plastic toys do not likeovens.
20.) The fire department in Austin, TX has a 5-minute response time.
21.) The spin cycle on the washing machine does not make earthworms dizzy.
22.) It will, however, make cats dizzy.
23.) Cats throw up twice their body weight when dizzy.
24.) 80% of women will pass this on to almost all of their friends, with orwithout kids.
25.) 80% of men who read this will try mixing the Clorox and brake fluid.
So do you have any stories of your own to add?
Monday, August 07, 2006
So Many Carnivals
Saturday, August 05, 2006
Experiencing Christ Within
I've mentioned before how I've been going through the Experiencing Christ Within workbook by Dwight Edwards. I've done my fair share of Bible studies, but this one seems so fresh and new. I am learning so much and hope some of what I'm learning is rubbing off.
In week two, I explored the idea that people are not God's first priority. That God's main purpose is to show his glory!
Did you get what I just said?
In this "What about me?" society we live in, this could be a shock to many. I had to read it a couple of times to fully understand what was being said. How many of us, me included, have been guilty of using God to meet our needs? Even the church and the Christian book stores are guilty of "selling" Christianity as a way to be successful and happy. But Jesus never promised success or happiness. Luke 21:12 says, "...they will lay hands on you and persecute you. They will deliver you to synagogues and prisons, and you will be brought before kings and governors, and all on account of my name."
According to Dwight, the main point of our spirituality has been forgotten. The Bible is full of examples of God trying to further his glory, not "fix" lives. Sure, he loved, cared for, protected and answered the prayers of his people, but behind every answered prayer was the revealing of His glory.
Dwight says, "So the question isn't whether God is on our side, responsive to our call, but whether we are genuinely on His side, responsive to His call. It isn't how God fits into what we're doing, but how we fit into what God is doing. He is the Creator; we are the creatures...He runs the universe. We fit in."
So the phrase this week has been "do my actions glorify God?" I've used it a couple of times with my kids this week and it's really stopped them in their tracks. Now I need to start applying it to my parenting. Do my actions with my children glorify God. Well, that's a whole other post for another day.
In week two, I explored the idea that people are not God's first priority. That God's main purpose is to show his glory!
Did you get what I just said?
We are here on earth to serve the living God and reveal His glory through our actions. Dwight Edwards says it like this, "Nothing-nothing-matters more to God than the glory of His name. He is ablaze with a perfect, pure jealousy for His reputation."
In this "What about me?" society we live in, this could be a shock to many. I had to read it a couple of times to fully understand what was being said. How many of us, me included, have been guilty of using God to meet our needs? Even the church and the Christian book stores are guilty of "selling" Christianity as a way to be successful and happy. But Jesus never promised success or happiness. Luke 21:12 says, "...they will lay hands on you and persecute you. They will deliver you to synagogues and prisons, and you will be brought before kings and governors, and all on account of my name."
According to Dwight, the main point of our spirituality has been forgotten. The Bible is full of examples of God trying to further his glory, not "fix" lives. Sure, he loved, cared for, protected and answered the prayers of his people, but behind every answered prayer was the revealing of His glory.
Dwight says, "So the question isn't whether God is on our side, responsive to our call, but whether we are genuinely on His side, responsive to His call. It isn't how God fits into what we're doing, but how we fit into what God is doing. He is the Creator; we are the creatures...He runs the universe. We fit in."
So the phrase this week has been "do my actions glorify God?" I've used it a couple of times with my kids this week and it's really stopped them in their tracks. Now I need to start applying it to my parenting. Do my actions with my children glorify God. Well, that's a whole other post for another day.
Friday, August 04, 2006
A Little Bribery Never Hurt
I'm trying to retrain my family how to "talk" to each other. Too often we (and I'm the worst culprit) repsond to each other in annoyance and yelling. It's a pattern I grew up with and despite how many books I've read, I can't seem to kick the habit and now my children are little gripers and react harshly to each other, especially to four year old Gracie who always seem to mess up what they're doing.
Hence, the bribery. I'm trying out the "if you whine, or react harshly to someone, then you owe 25 cents...but if I catch you being kind and gentle, then you earn 25 cents."
This method may cost me a bundle, but if it works then at least I won't have to pay for therapy or cough up the money to bail them out of jail!
***UPDATED: Okay, I think I owe my kids a couple of dollars, when I suddenly lost it this weekend rushing to get out the door and no one was listening or doing what they were supposed to. No, if only I can bribe them into getting out the door on time!
Hence, the bribery. I'm trying out the "if you whine, or react harshly to someone, then you owe 25 cents...but if I catch you being kind and gentle, then you earn 25 cents."
So far the morning has gone well. They've been earning money, and only had a little taken away. But the best part is that it helps them think before they react. It's also helped me! I caught myself responding in frustration and before I ended my sentence I had tured it around!
This method may cost me a bundle, but if it works then at least I won't have to pay for therapy or cough up the money to bail them out of jail!
***UPDATED: Okay, I think I owe my kids a couple of dollars, when I suddenly lost it this weekend rushing to get out the door and no one was listening or doing what they were supposed to. No, if only I can bribe them into getting out the door on time!
What I love About Blogging Tribute
Remember that old commercial. Calgon...take me away. Well, that's what I love about blogging. It takes me away to anywhere I want to go and connects me with people I never would have dreamed of meeting. And as a SAHomeschoolingM, connecting with people is very important.
I no longer feel alone, lost in a world of kiddie chaos. With a click of the button I can find fellowship and sanity in the midst of my busy day.
What I love about blogging is that if I need a vacation to Hawaii, I just click on someone who's there and usually I find out her life isn't much of a vacation. It's just like yours and mine.
What I love about blogging is that it's fast. Unlike snail mail which takes WAY too long, internet blogging connects you immediately. Plus, you can do it for free where the cost of a stamp seems to be going up every other week. (I can remember when a stamp was .13)
There are sooo many things I love about blogging, but there are dangers as well. Like spending way too much time on line and not enough time doing what I love, like playing with my kids, reading and spending time in God's word.
So much to love about blogging, so little time to...sleep!!!!!
Here's more of the carnival.
I no longer feel alone, lost in a world of kiddie chaos. With a click of the button I can find fellowship and sanity in the midst of my busy day.
What I love about blogging is that if I need a vacation to Hawaii, I just click on someone who's there and usually I find out her life isn't much of a vacation. It's just like yours and mine.
What I love about blogging is that it's fast. Unlike snail mail which takes WAY too long, internet blogging connects you immediately. Plus, you can do it for free where the cost of a stamp seems to be going up every other week. (I can remember when a stamp was .13)
There are sooo many things I love about blogging, but there are dangers as well. Like spending way too much time on line and not enough time doing what I love, like playing with my kids, reading and spending time in God's word.
So much to love about blogging, so little time to...sleep!!!!!
Here's more of the carnival.
Thursday, August 03, 2006
Bloggers Needed
Writing opportunity for Christian writing moms. Check out my new endeavor and see if you'd be a good fit!
Guest Blogging at Violet Voices Today!
Check out my post at Violet Voices today on Life's Little Interruptions and find out how God might be trying to get your attention through them. And don't forget to leave a comment and saying you found your way via Portrait...
Wednesday, August 02, 2006
Gracie's High School Miracle!
Tonight at dinner we were going over our extra curricular budget. I was using the time as an impromtu math lesson with my older boys.
As we calculated the money,I asked the boys, "so what is it?" (referring to the answer to the math problem.)
In the most serious tone, Gracie, my 4 year old, chimes in, "16 over pi!" (as in the number pi)
We all started cracking up. Gracie was reciting a line from this family's new favorite movie, "High School Miracle," Oops, I mean "High School Musical." Gracie calls it "High School Miracle".
I asked her why, "She said because it's a miracle they got to sing!"
Makes sense to me!
I've Started a Webring
I know, like I don't have enough blogrolls listed in my sidebar. But I'm really excited about this one. I haven't found one yet that meets all of my needs as a Christian writing mom, so I started my own. I also started another blog to host this webring and I'll be looking for contributors soon. So if you're a Christian writing mom, go check it out and don't forget to join the webring. I've finally figured out how to add members! And believe me, it was no small task.
Garbage: It Works for Me
I wish I had a before picture for this one, but if you will...imagine a 10 year old slate blue plastic trash can. Nasty, stained and UGLY. Well, why did it take me this long to realize I didn't have to live with the unsightly thing?Recently I purchased a wicker hamper with a lid and whalla, a pretty trash can I can proudly display in my kitchen.
Instead of the 13 gallon kitchen bags, I pop in the 30 gallon bags and LEAVE IN the cotton liner. It was VERY difficult lifting out the trash without the liner.
So what do you think? An improvement on a yucky trash can?
Don't forget to visit Shannon for some other great ideas!
Tuesday, August 01, 2006
In Honor of My 100th Post
100 things you probably don't care to know about me. Okay, here's the trick. How to give the info. without revealing too much.
1. I grew up in NY
2. Not NYC or Up State
3. I'm full blooded Italian
4. Didn't really enjoy my childhood
5. I wrote poems and sang songs to Jesus when I was sad or lonely
6. Moved West to go to a Christian College
7. Lived here in the mid-west longer than I did in NY
8. Lived in an apartment over my grandma's house growing up.
9. Once I slept walked to my grandma's bed.
10. As a child I dreamt about standing up to the monsters chasing me and often told them "It's just a dream."
11. Parents separated when I was six
12. Always loved to write and kept many journals
13. I still have my first diary
14. Which is filled with mean things my sister did to me.
15. Had a cat named Gizmo growing up
16. Named him after the movie, Gremlins.
17. Called him Gizzy for short
18. Started writing for the school paper in high school
19. Was in school musicals as a background dancer/singer
20. Growing up I wanted to be a child actress
21. a gymnast
22. an artist
23. a writer
24. I wrote fan letters to teen heart throbs like Scott Baio, C. Thomas Howell, Ralph Macchio
25. No one ever wrote back :(
26. Had many pen pals
27. from Algeria, Africa
28. Bangladesh
29. Malaysia
30. Italy
31. Went to Italy when I was 15 and met my pen pal
32. Also saw the home where my grandma grew up
33. Shared Christ with my pen pals
34. Went on Missions in college to Nigeria for 6 weeks
35. Went the following summer again and stayed a semester for a total of 6 months
36. Received many marriage proposals in Africa
37. Refused them all
38. Preached in small villages across Nigeria
39. Married a man I never thought I would
40. Though I remember thinking at one time "He's sure going to make someone a good husband."
41. Never thought it'd be me.
42. We've been married 14 years
43. Had a big NY, Italian wedding in the middle of winter
44. Forgot to play the tarantella at my wedding
45. Took dance lessons before wedding, but it didn't help hubby's rhythm
46. I have four kids
47. 3 boys
48. 1 girl
49. My children are 1/2 Italian, 1/4 Irish, 1/4 German
50. 3 of them have blue/grey eyes
51. My brown eyed son was a toe head when he was little
52. 3 of my kids were blonde until 3 or 4 years old
53. I'm an introvert,
54. Choleric,
55. Melancholy
56. Who feels more comfortable behind the computer than in a big crowd
57. I've written over 300 articles for newspapers, magazines
58. Stopped counting at 300
59. Most of the articles were for high school, college papers and I never got paid for it
60. Started getting paid for writing about eight years ago
61. Stopped writing for local paying magazines several years ago to pursue fiction
62. I am unpublished in fiction
63. I have one published work for hire book, Reach for your Dreams, Graduate
64. One other coming out soon, a mom's prayer devotion book.
65. I used to be a Creative Memories Consultant
66. Husband made me quit because I never made any money at it.
67. I don't miss doing my taxes
68. but I'm running out of supplies
69. In one weekend crop I can put together 50 pages
70. I still need to do the journaling
71. My favorite vacation was to Maui
72. Flew in a helicopter, got nauseous
73. Road down the side of a volcano on a bike
74. On the van ride up, I got nauseous
75. Went scuba diving and got nauseous on the boat out to Molokai
76. Went whale watching and actually saw whales
77. Vacationed in Whistler, Canada for skiing
78. Finally learned how to get off the ski lift without falling
79. My favorite vacation spot is the beach
80. Took a 3 1/2 week driving vacation up the east coast last spring
81. It was a homeschool History tour
82. First stop Disney World
83. There's a lot of history at Disney!!!!
83. Next stop, Jamestown, Virginia
84. Saw a real archeological dig
85. Next, Yorktown
86. Mt Vernon and saw where George Washington lived
87. Visited family in NY
88. Next, Plimoth, plantation
89. No, I didn't spell it wrong
90. It has many different spellings
91. Saw Plymouth Rock
92. It was smaller than I imagined
93. Next, toured Philadelphia
94. Made my kids write a page about every where we visited
95. This will be my third year homeschooling
96. Sometimes days I think I'm insane
97. Others days, I can't see not homeschooling
98. I love my family
99. I love my God
100. I love my Savior, Jesus Christ!
So there you have it! A little glimpse into my past and present. Hope it didn't put you to sleep. If you're still with me, how about letting me now what we have in common!
1. I grew up in NY
2. Not NYC or Up State
3. I'm full blooded Italian
4. Didn't really enjoy my childhood
5. I wrote poems and sang songs to Jesus when I was sad or lonely
6. Moved West to go to a Christian College
7. Lived here in the mid-west longer than I did in NY
8. Lived in an apartment over my grandma's house growing up.
9. Once I slept walked to my grandma's bed.
10. As a child I dreamt about standing up to the monsters chasing me and often told them "It's just a dream."
11. Parents separated when I was six
12. Always loved to write and kept many journals
13. I still have my first diary
14. Which is filled with mean things my sister did to me.
15. Had a cat named Gizmo growing up
16. Named him after the movie, Gremlins.
17. Called him Gizzy for short
18. Started writing for the school paper in high school
19. Was in school musicals as a background dancer/singer
20. Growing up I wanted to be a child actress
21. a gymnast
22. an artist
23. a writer
24. I wrote fan letters to teen heart throbs like Scott Baio, C. Thomas Howell, Ralph Macchio
25. No one ever wrote back :(
26. Had many pen pals
27. from Algeria, Africa
28. Bangladesh
29. Malaysia
30. Italy
31. Went to Italy when I was 15 and met my pen pal
32. Also saw the home where my grandma grew up
33. Shared Christ with my pen pals
34. Went on Missions in college to Nigeria for 6 weeks
35. Went the following summer again and stayed a semester for a total of 6 months
36. Received many marriage proposals in Africa
37. Refused them all
38. Preached in small villages across Nigeria
39. Married a man I never thought I would
40. Though I remember thinking at one time "He's sure going to make someone a good husband."
41. Never thought it'd be me.
42. We've been married 14 years
43. Had a big NY, Italian wedding in the middle of winter
44. Forgot to play the tarantella at my wedding
45. Took dance lessons before wedding, but it didn't help hubby's rhythm
46. I have four kids
47. 3 boys
48. 1 girl
49. My children are 1/2 Italian, 1/4 Irish, 1/4 German
50. 3 of them have blue/grey eyes
51. My brown eyed son was a toe head when he was little
52. 3 of my kids were blonde until 3 or 4 years old
53. I'm an introvert,
54. Choleric,
55. Melancholy
56. Who feels more comfortable behind the computer than in a big crowd
57. I've written over 300 articles for newspapers, magazines
58. Stopped counting at 300
59. Most of the articles were for high school, college papers and I never got paid for it
60. Started getting paid for writing about eight years ago
61. Stopped writing for local paying magazines several years ago to pursue fiction
62. I am unpublished in fiction
63. I have one published work for hire book, Reach for your Dreams, Graduate
64. One other coming out soon, a mom's prayer devotion book.
65. I used to be a Creative Memories Consultant
66. Husband made me quit because I never made any money at it.
67. I don't miss doing my taxes
68. but I'm running out of supplies
69. In one weekend crop I can put together 50 pages
70. I still need to do the journaling
71. My favorite vacation was to Maui
72. Flew in a helicopter, got nauseous
73. Road down the side of a volcano on a bike
74. On the van ride up, I got nauseous
75. Went scuba diving and got nauseous on the boat out to Molokai
76. Went whale watching and actually saw whales
77. Vacationed in Whistler, Canada for skiing
78. Finally learned how to get off the ski lift without falling
79. My favorite vacation spot is the beach
80. Took a 3 1/2 week driving vacation up the east coast last spring
81. It was a homeschool History tour
82. First stop Disney World
83. There's a lot of history at Disney!!!!
83. Next stop, Jamestown, Virginia
84. Saw a real archeological dig
85. Next, Yorktown
86. Mt Vernon and saw where George Washington lived
87. Visited family in NY
88. Next, Plimoth, plantation
89. No, I didn't spell it wrong
90. It has many different spellings
91. Saw Plymouth Rock
92. It was smaller than I imagined
93. Next, toured Philadelphia
94. Made my kids write a page about every where we visited
95. This will be my third year homeschooling
96. Sometimes days I think I'm insane
97. Others days, I can't see not homeschooling
98. I love my family
99. I love my God
100. I love my Savior, Jesus Christ!
So there you have it! A little glimpse into my past and present. Hope it didn't put you to sleep. If you're still with me, how about letting me now what we have in common!
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