Tricia Goyer: Practical Stuff

Portrait of Writing Mom, Faith, Writing, Interview

Now . . . for practical stuff. I have someone come to my house once a week to clean. It cost $60 for 4 hours, but it saves me tons of time. I also picked out a homeschooling curriculum that gives a great education without me having to write lesson plans or grade papers. I also sign up kids up for some classes . . . but not too many.

One of the biggest time-wasters and money-wasters is signing our kids up for stuff because we feel we want to give them every opportunity. If my kids don't LOVE it, we don't do it.

Finally, I also get them involved in my volunteering when I can. They've helped clean, remodel, babysit, label, stack, sort, and spread the word! I feel this is another bonus about homeschooling, we can teach "loving others" in real and practical ways.

ALMOST DONE?
With my oldest son entering 11th grade and my youngest son entering 6th, I thought my homeschool journey was more than half over. Then we decided to adopt a baby from China. We’ll get her in about a year, and then we’ll start again!

Of course, I think homeschooling is worth it. When I look at my kids, I see young men and women who have strong character and the family connectedness I longed for. They love their family, love God, and seem to be excelling in their education.

Of course, I can’t say that the years have been without frustration and tears. There were days when I seriously questioned if I was crazy for taking on this task. I lost my temper (more than once!) and questioned if I was doing enough to insure my children would lead productive lives.

Yet in the end, I look back with joy and appreciation of our time spent learning together. I have fond memories of teaching three children to read, of attempting science projects on the kitchen counter, and discovering each child’s unique personalities and God-give talents.

Now that my son will soon be graduating and moving on to higher education, I’m especially thankful for the chance to truly know him and the chance for him to get to know me—spending 24/7 with anyone will insure that!

And looking back, I can say without a doubt I’d do it all again. Through the years, we’ve learned home’s a cool place to be. To laugh, to love, and to learn.